You may have limiting beliefs.

I know I did.

But, I also had a voice...

"Why not me?"

So, who do you let be louder?

Which voice would you prefer to spend most of your time with?

Life is full of traps.

If you can see the traps before falling into them, you save lots of time.

Some traps you will fall into.

I was in a hell hole of a relationship for years.

I did not grasp the game we were playing.

Thankfully, I cut ties and it's turned into a beautiful lesson.

You don't want to be involved with others if you don't respect yourself.

Another trap is financial.

Biting off more than you can chew.

You are not done for though.

Assess you situation.

Notice how you can mitigate the damages.

Create your path for healing.

One step at a time.

You may have to do things you don't want to do.

If you are strategic in planning your direction, it's worthwhile.

You don't have to hate your current situation if you know you are improving.

You can learn to enjoy where you are at, if you know where you are going.

Direction is more valuable than speed.

Enjoying the moments on your journey is more valuable than your destination.

Experience is more valuable than material objects.

What am I saying?

Balance everything that I listed.

The journey is more easily enjoyed with a general destination.

Material objects are better when they create experiences.

Speed is better when it's directed well.

You become a master of your life when you a playing the game intentionally.

You recognize the power behind your mind.

That all the greatest people and achievements called for self-belief.

That your inner beliefs calls for certain habits.

'Clean up.

Grow up.

Wake up.'

-Ken Wilber