do you understand the idea of deception?
Mar 10, 2023 5:46 pm
Wrong context is a great deception mechanism.
If you look at something from a different angle than another person you both can be looking at the same thing but see something completely different.
This is where concepts like perspective and context come into play.
Our perspectives are usually made up of our programming, what beliefs we have adopted as true in our experience.
See many people believe things that have been told by authority.
This is fine, the trouble is sometimes people don't even question anything they're told.
That's a fast route to being taken advantage of.
How do you feel
Asking questions is not something everyone has the foundation to do, see many humans are barely conscious in todays society due to the lack of education on health.
They are equivalent to low energy zombies.
When you have a foggy mind and low energy odds are you're following the pre-paved route handed to you.
Not thinking deeper about the context of why you're here on this world.
If we do not have a high quality input it's much less likely that we ask deep powerful questions and as you know the quality of our questions determines the quality of our experience.
We can craft a great life by diving into education which will allow us to create a strong and balanced life.
If you don't know where to start pick something like: psychology (I started with Jordan Peterson and stock market education), physical health (I focus nutrition, lifting and boxing) and business (sales is great for psychological education too).
Bottom line is you'll do best following what interest you if you think strategically and ask good questions.
Are you fueling yourself with great inputs?
Your choices matter
It's so interesting how much our childhood effects who we become.
The main reason I'm who I am is due to having a loving mother who gave me an opportunity to get to know myself.
She accepted me for who I was which has allowed me to learn how to accept myself and that's shown me how to accept others.
Feedback loops are everywhere if you'll look for them...
We need to understand how programming works.
Your subconscious mind is way more powerful than your conscious mind.
Everything you hear and see is being processed by the subconscious.
This emphasized how important it is to be intentional with what you put inside your mind, if you're not you will be programmed by others and become what you consume.
If you constantly consume fearful information I can just about promise you you'll be a fearful person, not a coincidence.
If you are intentional and detailed with what you place your attention on you will become of that nature.
Everything in life is a choice.
Every choice you make is a vote for who you want to become.
Life is what you make it
Once you become aware to ideas such as programming and asking quality questions you can begin to un-learn and re-wire your mind.
This is a ground breaking activity you can do.
Recognizing that's it's a decision to continue to live how you've been existing and rather you can change things up for the better.
For example, if your self-image involves many labels and ANYTHING that potentially limits you, you're seriously your own worst enemy.
By labeling yourself with negative limitations you set yourself up to follow that path.
The world is not as it is, the world is as you're.
If you see yourself as a un-confident low ability human you will find signs that confirm that in the world.
If you see yourself as powerful, loving, open, strong and peaceful you'll see that in the world.
This is essentially a variation of the law of attraction or the idea of karmic debt.
You will forever get what you put out into this experience.
You get what you give.
It truly comes down to your degree of awareness and intent that you act with on a moment to moment basis.
Take the difficult road
I feel many humans could say they have no interest in being manipulated and taken advantage of.
That being said, the vast majority does not do the work to educate themselves on how to prevent this from occurring.
See, It's not that others are manipulating you.
That's one option.
The much more likely option is you manipulate yourself...
What do I mean?
I know you have two voices inside of you.
One tends to be negative and judgmental of yourself and others, while the other voice sees the positive and has empathy for what another is going through.
Unfortunately many of us don't do the work to get this internal battle under control.
Many choose the short-term easy path which is to run, avoid and suppress the negative voice.
While the short-term path may be easy now, it leads to massive issues down the road.
On the other hand, you can choose the hard route now, to aim to understand that negative voice, to listen to it and figure out what it's telling you deep within.
Here's a hint: that voice is only negative because it knows what you can become and your actions currently don't align with who you can become.
Can't skip the work
Context is a valuable idea to educate yourself on.
The context changes the entire meaning of whatever lays within it... It blows my mind how many humans don't think bigger picture.
If you take one step back everything looks a bit different.
As an 18 year old I was thinking about working an office job for 40 years and that just disgusted me, not a chance I was going to go through that hell.
I couldn't help but think about my future in high school.
What's the context of your life?
See, you can't change the hand you were dealt man.
I dwelled on this for years, "why me, oh poor me...".
Such a toxic and useless lens to look through, the victim is such a saboteur.
What's the solution?
To make the best out of the hand you were dealt...
How do you make the best of your circumstance?
You work on yourself.
Relentlessly aim to reduce the amount of suffering that you create in this world, that's truly what working on yourself is.
When you're rude to another, you create suffering, when you are easily offended, you create suffering for yourself, when you can't control and let go of your emotions, you create suffering.
Might as well learn how to make your life peaceful.
This is done by doing the work, the greatest part about the game of life is that you get what you put fourth, you have such an amazing opportunity.
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So the power truly is in your hands, pay more attention to your inner judge and self sabotaging tendencies.
You choose what you see by what lens you look through.
One of the best things you can do for yourself is to focus on the fundamentals of health and to be consistent in maintaining your health while educating yourself with time.
-clean up your nutrition
-create an exercising routine
-educate yourself 1H+ daily
If you follow these key points your improvement and overall betterment of the quality of your life is inevitable, remember no one will ever do it for you.
You must be your own biggest fan.
Conclusion!
I hope this helps, these are ideas and lines of thinking that would've helped me greatly in the past.
Goal is simply to reduce the amount of pain you have to experience to get to where I am now.
Did you create your own values and vision or did society create it for you?
What truly is most important to you?
HEY - LISTEN
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