Yooo! If the tide never went out, how would one know when it's in?

Meaning, without darkness we can't know light.

Without hot, what's cold?

How can this be practically beneficial?

Well, we all go through some bullsh!t in our time here.

That said, we can actually use this B.S. to make us stronger and wiser.

To be honest, what drives me to become my best is the B.S. I've experienced.

My dad did not teach me much. He didn't act as a True Father.

How's this helpful?

He showed me what I did not want to become.

So he gave me a powerful motivation to improve myself each day.

I'll label this sort of person the ANTI ROLE MODEL.

Do you have any in your life?

How can you twist them into a strong reason for becoming better yourself?

There's truly 2 options.

To use these people as fuel to grow.

Or to act as if they hold you back.

One choice is beneficial, while the other is destructive.

This can be applied to many situations.

ANYTHING that's annoying you, you can twist into a learning lesson.

For example, I would walk my dogs down the street.

Other dogs would bark.

I'd feel my annoyance, notice it, and choose to laugh at myself for being annoyed.

See, I can't control this, so why should I allow it to annoy me?

No point in outsourcing our internal peace.

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