why denial doesn't work... And what to do about it: (grossly powerful - lessons from Christ)
Dec 15, 2023 2:01 pm
Why denial doesn't work... And what to do about it:
(lessons from @jordanbpeterson & Christ himself)
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Denial;
The process of bullshitting yourself. To ignore and run from the feedback that god gives you in the form of feelings.
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One theme I've noticed in people stuck in denial:
They love to outsource their emotion to that which they don't control.
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Outsourcing emotion:
-you blame others
-you think it happened to you
-you operate from states of helplessness
Outsourcing emotion is the best way to hate your life.
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What to do about it?
"DON'T HIDE UNWANTED THINGS IN THE FOG..."
@jordanbpeterson
This means:
-prioritize clarity
-don't waste time
-pay attention to how your actions lead to feelings
-stop living a half ass life and complaining because you are getting what you give
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Action step:
Ask - what is the driver of most the pain I feel?
(odds are it's a lack of clarity first)
(next it's a lack of alignment with values)
(third it's a lack of discipline and consistency with actions aligned with values)
(fourth is a lack of nuanced reflection and personal guidance) - INVEST IN YOURSELF MF...
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P.S. Do you resonate? - Are you potentially not aware of where to start?
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