How To Know You're Wasting Your Life

Oct 22, 2025 1:35 pm

Good morning, ,


First, I have a warning.


If you read this, you can't un-see it. You can't unlearn it. You can't un-understand.


Sorry. Not sorry.


If you're trying to follow someone else's plan for your life, including:


  • parents
  • teachers
  • partner
  • friends
  • boss
  • mentor
  • ANYONE ELSE


You're living their life. Their dream. Their vision.


Not yours.


And I'm not saying it won't work out for you. It might. And I hope it does.


But, in my own experience, when you're chasing someone else's purpose, you help them, but you end up feeling a little unfulfilled. Empty.


It's OK to discover what lights you up and chase that.


And those people I listed above might be on board. And they might not be.


That's OK. You deserve to follow your dream. You don't have to settle for following their.


You've got this!


Ken


PS. Want to have a deeper conversation? Let's chat. I keep my open availability updated here: or follow this link: https://zcal.co/kenwilliams/breakthrough

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