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Even with a secure foundation, boundaries can get fuzzy—especially in times of stress, transition, or old pattern reactivation.

Healthy relationships don’t avoid conflict or collapse at the first sign of “no.” They welcome honesty and adjustments.

Think of boundaries as regular tune-ups—not emergency repairs.

They help everyone stay connected and sovereign.

🧭 Try This:

Micro-Reflection:

Where in your life are you overextending just a little?

Anchor Phrase:

“It’s loving to speak my limits clearly. It keeps the relationship safe.”

Secure isn’t static. It’s something you practice—and you’re doing a beautiful job.

Want to learn a bit more about attachment from the Coming Home to Love Retreat Facilitators?

Check out this conversation exploring attachment and how we can heal it.

Until next time, love well.

With gratitude,

Dolphin, Phillipe & Francesca - The Journey To Secure Team