Hi

I know you are waiting to hear the concluding part of my story but before that: How are you really doing?

I know that sounds more like the normal everyday question we get to ask people nonchalantly without meaning it but hey, I mean this; how are you?

, Are you truly fine?

For me, its been a roller coaster of feelings; feeling alone even when you have people around.

Wishing a miracle can just happen and some memories can be erased while some resurrected to life but not possible so, life goes on and we learn.

Being a business strategist who is specialized in business visibility and customer relationship, I can tell you that emotional intelligence is very key to any kind of success you want in life.

I can pass for a Life coach but I dread the energy absorption. I can easily absorb the energy of people even via chats and if you don't have a solid foundation where you get refilled, you will end up being a mess.

Life coaching comes more natural than business coaching to me but like i said life happened and I am not so strong to absorb certain energy right now.

So back to my story:

I got so close to this lady that I could share my secrets of how I make my money and how I scale through life with her.

I introduced her to even a friend only to lose her to that friend just because she needed to fit into the other lady's circle but what hurt me were the lies that were told just so she could shine but for how long?

At a point, I had to call the other lady to apologize for anything she was told I said that made her become so hostile towards me and i left her with these words; anybody who comes telling you what other people said about you, ask them why was it convenient for the people to talk about you with 'miss-goody-two shoes.

I have moved on since then but it takes grace to find a true friend because once it is no longer rosy, most of them move on to find 'better' and 'greater' friends.

, Only a few persons will want to go through the fire with you.

Can I tell you something?

Stop looking for a great friend, be that friend you want to attract and the universe will bless you will the kind you crave for.

I love you and I wish you a fabulous day.

Xoxo

Olufunke