I suck at friendship

Jun 25, 2020 11:01 am

Hello ,


This morning, I was so engrossed in my own thoughts about how people can go from being strangers to being friends and suddenly back to being strangers again.


Its weird , but it is what it is.


No matter your level of experience, nothing prepares you for the heartbreaks or betrayals of people you trust.


I remember how I had issues with a lady back then in school over things that today are not so making sense to either of us.


I had my clique and she had has. This caused a whole lot of tension and many relationships were strained but one thing that got me till date is the loyalty of my friends during and even beyond [Sope and Toyin]


They were like the titans; they can break my head inside and tell me how stupid I was but outside, they were my pillars, you dare not try to mess with me, they will mess you up big time.


I learned that loyalty from these girls and to date, I still respect them even though life has caused us to drift apart.


Fast forward to a few years after graduation, I met one of the girls from the other clique; now we are married and I just assumed all those childish stuff were behind us.


We got close and I being one who trusts easily until you give me reasons not to, I let her into my life thinking i have found a friend.


I never knew I was trusting my enemies...[continue tomorrow]


So tell me , which of your goal for the week are you crushing today?

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Even as we take care of our minds, it is necessary that our businesses don't suffer.


You know I love you right?

Xoxo

Olufunke

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