I suck at friendship
Jun 24, 2020 11:31 am
Hello ,
This morning, I was so engrossed in my own thoughts about how people can go from being strangers to being friends and suddenly back to being strangers again.
Its weird , but it is what it is.
No matter your level of experience, nothing prepares you for the heartbreaks or betrayals of people you trust.
I remember how I had issues with a lady back then in school over things that today are not so making sense to either of us.
I had my clique and she had has. This caused a whole lot of tension and many relationships were strained but one thing that got me till date is the loyalty of my friends during and even beyond [Sope and Toyin]
They were like the titans; they can break my head inside and tell me how stupid I was but outside, they were my pillars, you dare not try to mess with me, they will mess you up big time.
I learned that loyalty from these girls and to date, I still respect them even though life has caused us to drift apart.
Fast forward to a few years after graduation, I met one of the girls from the other clique; now we are married and I just assumed all those childish stuff were behind us.
We got close and I being one who trusts easily until you give me reasons not to, I let her into my life thinking i have found a friend.
I never knew I was trusting my enemies...[continue tomorrow]
So tell me , which of your goal for the week are you crushing today?
Even as we take care of our minds, it is necessary that our businesses don't suffer.
You know I love you right?
Xoxo
Olufunke