Hello,
I am not for everyone and I am more than okay with that reality.
I didn't get this far in like by seeking validation from every tom dick and harry.
Before I got this wiser and smarter,I used to think I needed the approval of some "people" to become relevant on this digital space.
Like you need to be associated with someone who knows someone who is influential before you can scale up.....nah!!! Kindly miss me wit that bullshit.
It is all grace and what you have on your inside,.
If you don't have anything of value, the influential can never break your head to put it there, you will only end up being more confused than before you met him/her.
For a person on a mission with purpose,, learn to focus on your focus.
Don't go clout chasing people you think are more knowledgeable that you because clout won't give you visibility or sales you need instead it makes you look desperate,a copycat and an ass-licker.
, I didn't get this far because everybody liked me o
I got here because I was intentional with my association and was ready to work a little harder than the average person.
Most people who you see and admire may not share their behind the scenes because they are not so pleasant.
You don't need everyone to like you .
That is why you hear thought leader advising their communities to always carve a niche for themselves because the more defined your niche the more impact you make and the better the results you get.
When you give value, people will be attracted to you not when you clout chase or attach yourself to a person because of what you hope to gain from them or their influence ; thereby losing your self worth and respect in the process.
You don't need to like me to learn from me and vice versa.
๐ช๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐๐ข๐, ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ง๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ข๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ค๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ, ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฏ๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ก๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ณ๐ณ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ๐๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง๐๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ง๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ญ๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ.โฃ
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If they don't like you,brace up; revamp yourself so well that they will be the ones telling others how they got to know just to famz you.
Keep moving and improving yourself.
Xoxo
Olufunke
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