Who can you change?

Jun 05, 2020 11:32 am

Hello ,


A lot of time we are busy looking for the perfect friend, spouse or date that we forget that we are the constant in these equations we are forming and also looking for solutions for.


Perfection is an illusion because every human is perfectly flawed.


So many relationships suffer hitch because the people involved are either having unrealistic expectations of themselves or because of fantasies imbibed from too much reading of romantic novels or seeing romantic movies.


To study a person is to know the person in another dimension.


Love is never enough to hold anything together for long.


Patience, understanding and above all, quality mutual communication are some of the most essential tools that can uphold the love in any relationship.


It is in communicating you get to understand the thought pattern of your partner or spouse.


Honestly, your partner {specially married folks} is a reflection of you.


  • How do you settle dispute?
  • Who is always right?
  • Can you apologize even when not wrong just so peace can reign?
  • Do you always need a third party to settle your dispute?
  • What is your partner's love Language?


As a way of helping you bridge the gap of communication in your relationship or marriage, I have an e-book "Beyond The Sheet".

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This book, is a simple read and it will help you understand the efficacy of the right mutual communication in every relationship and how to get the best out of the communication style of your relationship.


Silence is not a way to communicate with your partner.


Violence is not a mode of communication.


Malice is no communication channel.


You communicate better by applying the L.P.R technique


Listen


Process the information


Respond

Listen to understand and not to just respond.


I hope this helps!


Just because I am still in my birthday mood, the book will be going for #1999 against it worth price of #5000. click on the link below to quickly place your order.

https://bit.ly/beyondthesheetebook


This offer is up till 10th of June after which it reverts.


It is not only our businesses that should make sense, our relationships should make load of sense as well.


I have got nothing but love for you,


Xoxo


Olufunke


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