Brave Conversations: Charlie McMillan - If You Can’t Be Brave, Be Quiet

Feb 16, 2026 11:58 am

Hello , My fellow brave human


The latest episode of Brave Conversations is now live. My latest being with Charlie McMillan, Director of Human Rights Consortium Scotland - and is a must listen if we want to understand how to keep our human rights intact in these turbulent times.


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Charlie ‘came out’ in Scotland during the 1980s—a time when homosexuality had only recently been decriminalised. He experienced firsthand the fear, isolation, and systemic discrimination that marginalised communities face.


This history is what informs his empathy and commitment to human rights today. It hit home for him recently when a peer expressed shock at the current climate of fear and division, admitting that, for the first time in their life, they no longer felt safe in Scotland.


"That really resonated with me because quite the opposite was true. For the first 30 years of my life, I never felt safe in Scotland. And that lack of safety really stays with you."


It is this deep understanding of fear and marginalisation that drives him to advocate for those who are now facing similar struggles, ensuring that no one else has to endure the isolation and injustice he once knew.


His approach reminds us that activism is not just about fighting injustice, but also about sustaining the heart and spirit to keep moving forward. In his spare time he is developing his own mindfulness practice to help others develop approaches to manage their daily professional lives.


His personal experiences—navigating internalised homophobia, career risks, and the struggle to balance authenticity with societal expectations—have fuelled his passion for human rights. He emphasises that human rights are not just legal frameworks but the foundation of dignity, equity, and connection for everyone.


Why Human Rights Matter Now More Than Ever

Charlie’s story underscores the critical importance of human rights in today’s world. He highlights how the erosion of these rights—whether through political rhetoric, misinformation, or systemic neglect—creates a climate of fear and division. His message is clear: “If you can’t be brave, be quiet.”


This isn’t a call for silence but a reminder that complacency enables injustice. He urges us to reclaim the narrative, speak up for those who are marginalised, and hold leaders accountable.


Charlie’s work is rooted in the belief that human rights are the “golden thread” connecting all aspects of society—from education and healthcare to employment and community.


He warns that the current political and social climate risks unraveling decades of progress, leaving vulnerable groups—LGBTQI+ individuals, racialised minorities, people with disabilities, and those in poverty—facing even greater threats.


To put this into context - at least 40–50% of Scotland’s population is directly affected by one or more of these categories, with many experiencing multiple forms of marginalisation.


A Call to Action:

Charlie’s philosophy is one of compassionate activism. He encourages us to:

- Reflect on our own privileges and the fears of others.

- Speak up in ways that feel safe and meaningful, whether through letters to politicians, conversations with friends, or supporting advocacy efforts.

- Prioritise self-care and community to sustain our activism, recognising that change requires both courage and resilience.


His journey reminds us that progress is possible, but it demands collective action.


“Justice is what love looks like in public.”


Now is the time to stand up, not just for ourselves, but for the values that ensure a fair and inclusive society for all.


Listen to the whole podcast here (or wherever you listen to your podcasts!)


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Kirsty x

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