Hey ,

It’s easy to think of attachment styles as labels—fixed traits, or worse, personal flaws.

But here’s the truth: Disorganized attachment isn’t who you are. It’s what you learned to do to stay safe.

You learned to pull back when things got too close. To rely on yourself. To keep a protective distance from emotions that felt too big to handle.

And that makes so much sense.

But healing is possible. And it doesn’t mean becoming anxious or overly dependent. It means learning how to stay with yourself and others, without shutting down.

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We would love to welcome you into a space where you don’t have to do this work alone.

With care,

Dolphin, Phillipe & Francesca - The Journey to Secure Team