Hi ,

Lately, I’ve been way more aware of my armpit odor than I'd like to be. (Yep, we’re starting here. 🙃) It’s not something you casually bring up at dinner with friends, but it was bugging me enough that I went searching online to see how anyone else had dealt with this. I am sure I am not the only person in the world, but who can I find talking about it that I trust? I don't want advertisements, I want opinions and experiences.

That’s when I found this video by Margie May:

👉 Watch here

In 20 minutes, she took me through her whole journey, from the shameful parts to the frustrated parts, all the way to the end feeling so much better on handling it, shifting everything for me. It's part of my body’s natural detox process — and there were things I could do to support it. Just like that, I felt validated and hopeful again.

I had to know more about this woman. (Call it research, call it trolling… I call it connection. 😏)

Six years ago, Margie was putting out music, trying hard to be heard, and openly frustrated when she couldn’t get in front of the “right” people.

Her energy back then? Striving. Wanting. Pushing.

Her energy today? Radiant. Magnetic. Authentic.

You can literally see the transformation.

If she were my student, she’d be one of my favorite success stories. She is my evidence — living proof of what I teach: energy evolves, people evolve, and when you step into alignment, you shine.

So that was fun. Now where can I go from here? I instantly see this as a learning or teaching opportunity. As soon as I think about sharing this with Ken. 🥰 He listens to me gush about Margie, and then he does what he always does: he asks questions.

He's not trying to kill my buzz, but that's what he's doing. He’s being cautious and I love him for that. He loves me and wants to protect me. He’s seen me get burned before, and he still carries some of that. So when I get too excited about someone new, he wants to know: What’s their angle? What are they selling?

I love that about him. His resistance balances my excitement. His questions make me check in with myself. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s contrast — and contrast is how we learn.

✨ Alignment looks like me: giggly, inspired, lit up. (Naive, in his mind, I think.)

✨ Resistance looks like him when I get "too excited": cautious, protective, not quite ready to trust.

Neither is wrong. They’re just different energies. The beauty is, we both get to choose how to handle those moments. I’ve learned I don’t have to argue or defend. I can just notice, appreciate, and keep following my alignment.

The real magic is in knowing you don’t control anyone else’s energy. You only control your own. Our relationship is knowing we trust each other to keep our best interest at heart, but we respect each other's sometimes very differing opinions.

So thank you, Margie, for your authenticity and inspiration. You reminded me what admiration feels like (jealousy is wanting to deny you of it, to want to take it, not that — but that eager, I want to share in this energy feeling). I can't wait to meet you one day and talk and laugh about this.

And thank you, Ken, for showing me the value of resistance and how to stop resisting resistance, how resistance can reveal alignment even more clearly.

That’s what connection is all about. Look at our connection. Notice how we approach new connections, from our own points of view. I understand your resistance and I appreciate the respect you show me in trusting when I have a feeling, or when you do.

Always with love (and often a grin),

✨ Yael ✨

The Universe Whisperer 💗

P.S. If you want to explore where your energy is aligned or resistant, reply to this email. Tell me something about yourself. I’m currently offering a free coaching session to see if and how I can best serve you. I don't offer lectures. I want to engage with you, knowing what's helping and what's not.