Juan Bendana

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I don't know what to say...

Hi !


I hope you're having a great week.


I'll be honest- I have scheduled in my calendar 'send email' for today at 3:00pm.


The truth? I have no idea what to say. And that is a huge win.


Why?


Because I was always so focused on 'knowing what to say', that I wouldn't leave room for feeling confused. I hated being wrong so I just wouldn't say anything at all.


I realized that was no way to live. I realized that if I wanted to grow, if I wanted to consistently get better, I would need to be okay with confusion. I would need to lean into doubt and be enthusiastic about NOT knowing the answer.


In a nutshell, confusion is a good thing. Having moments of doubt is a good thing. Not knowing is a GOOD. THING.


It gives us the opportunity to grow. It allows us to learn and ultimately become better.


Just an insight I thought I'd share with you.


Hope you are absolutely ROCKING your week.


Your Canadian Email Friend,


Juan



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