Evaluate Your Friendship

Glee greetings, , life is a puzzle. Friends help solve the puzzle faster and easier.

As you journey towards assembling the pieces of your life's puzzle, it's crucial to surround yourself with individuals who truly uplift and support your endeavours. Allow me to shed light on the essence of genuine friendship through two distinctive hallmarks.

1. A Shoulder for Both Sorrow and Struggle

A true friend is a steadfast companion in times of hardship. They lend an empathetic ear without casting judgment or belittling your experiences. Instead, they stand by your side, offering solace through their attentive presence. In the face of adversity, their shared empathy demonstrates their unwavering commitment to your well-being.

2. Celebrating Triumphs Together

Just as a genuine friend stands by you during struggles, they equally revel in your successes. When you share moments of joy and achievement, a true friend responds with sincere enthusiasm. In a world fraught with challenges, their genuine happiness for your accomplishments shines through, untainted by envy or rivalry. Take note of this, , and sift friends who do the exact opposite

The Way Forward

In your pursuit of self-improvement, pay heed to the interactions and reactions of your friends. If your ambitious ambitions are met with resistance from supposed friends, this serves as a valuable revelation–a bloody red flag that you mustn't overlook. By identifying those who demean rather than uplift you, you're better equipped to distinguish genuine friendships from fleeting connections, .

You might hesitate to sever such ties because of the emotional attachment you've over the years or for fear of the void they may leave behind. However, remember that prioritizing your growth and well-being is a necessary step, . Letting go of those who hinder your progress is an act of compassion not only towards yourself but also towards them. For if they are entrenched in a downward spiral, your departure could spur their own positive transformation.

In closing, the litmus test of friendship lies in the ability to navigate both stormy seas and sunlit shores together. Cherish those who stand unwaveringly by your side, . Celebrate those who own your struggles with empathy and rejoice in your triumphs with genuine joy. They are the real friends.

Remember, I am one, and can't wait to celebrate your wins. I am rooting for you, .

Today's haiku is in your heart. It's in the rhythmical throbbing of your heartbeat against the walls of your chest. It's saying, "hey, buddy, don't let no one break me."

With ❤️ & 💡,

Jaachị "real friend" Anyatọnwụ