It's Friyaaaaaay!

Yes, finally, it's the weekend: that bliss time of the week we anticipate to unwind, rest, have fun, or spend time with our partners. Speaking of partners, , why do partners consciously or unconsciously get into "talking stage" with someone else?

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I read the quote italized below on the timeliness of someone who sent me a friend request Wednesday, and it has been on my mind ever since.

"If someone else is "talking" to your partner, then they are not the problem. Your partner is."

Do you think your partner's indulgence is a red flag, ?

If you're in a relationship and you find out that your partner is talking to someone else, it's natural to feel jealous or insecure. But it's important to remember that the other person is not the problem. The problem is your partner's indulgence in this behavior and of the other person's overtures.

There are a few reasons why your partner might be talking to someone else or letting someone else get intimate with them. They might be feeling unhappy in your relationship and looking for someone else to fill that void. They might be bored or lonely. Or they might simply be curious about what else is out there.

Whatever the reason, , it's important to remember that your partner's behavior is a reflection of them, not you. It doesn't mean that you're not good enough or that you've done anything wrong.

If you're concerned about your partner's behavior, the best thing to do is to talk to them about it. Let them know how their behavior is making you feel and ask them why they're doing it. It's important to have an open and honest conversation about this issue. I do hope they'd be honest though. Why? Most times, the guilty tends to put up a defense made of concrete lies in order to save face. Be wise.

If your partner is unwilling to talk about it or if they continue to indulge in this behavior without regard to your feelings, then you may need to consider ending the relationship. A relationship without trust and respect is not a healthy relationship, .

It's important to remember that you deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is committed to you and who makes you feel secure. If your partner is not willing to do that, then you need to find someone who will.

Here are some tips for dealing with a partner who is talking to someone else:

• Talk to your partner about how their behavior is making you feel. Be honest and open about your emotions.
• Ask your partner why they are talking to someone else. Try to understand their reasons for this behavior and help them put do right, if they are willing.
• Set boundaries with your partner. Let them know what you are and are not comfortable with.
• Be prepared to end the relationship if your partner is unwilling to change their behavior. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is 100% committed to you.

May your love life flourish.

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