November Joy: Humor Is A Rubber Sword

Glee greetings, . Was your weekend fun?

I hope this musing finds you in good health and spirits. I am writing to share with you some thoughts on humor and how it can help us cope with the challenges of life.

You may have heard the quote:

"Humor is a rubber sword - it allows you to make a point without drawing blood."

This quote is attributed to Mary Hirsch, a writer and a teacher of humorous writing. I find this quote very insightful and relevant, especially in these times of uncertainty and conflict.

Humor is a powerful tool that can help us communicate effectively, persuade others, and express our opinions without offending or hurting anyone.

Humor can also help us reduce stress, improve our mood, and enhance our creativity. It can be a source of joy, wisdom, and healing.

But how do we use humor wisely and appropriately? How do we avoid crossing the line between funny and offensive? How do we balance humor and seriousness?

Here are some tips that I have learned from my experience as a poet, editor, and publisher:

- Know your audience

Different people have different tastes and sensitivities when it comes to humor. What may be hilarious to one person may be offensive or insensitive to another.

Before you crack a joke or make a witty remark, consider who you are talking to and what their expectations and preferences are.

Avoid topics that are taboo, controversial, or personal, unless you are sure that your audience will appreciate them. Avoid dark humor if you must.

- Know your purpose

Warethe pun? Why are you using humor? What are you trying to achieve? Are you trying to make a point, persuade someone, entertain, or simply lighten the mood? Depending on your goal, you may need to adjust your tone, style, and delivery of humor.

For example, if you are trying to make a serious point, you may want to use subtle or ironic humor, rather than exaggerated or sarcastic humor. If you are trying to entertain, you may want to use more playful or absurd humor, rather than dry or dark humor.

- Know your limits

Humor is a rubber sword, but it can still hurt if you use it too much or too harshly. Don't overdo it or abuse it. Don't use humor as a weapon to attack, mock, or belittle others. Don't use humor as a shield to avoid responsibility, accountability, or honesty. Don't use humor as an excuse to be rude, insensitive, or inappropriate. Use humor with respect, kindness, and compassion.

I hope you enjoyed this newsletter. I would love to hear your feedback and your thoughts on humor. You can reply to this email.

Thank you for reading and stay safe and happy!

With ❤️

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