Should Boundaries Be Respected?

Oct 21, 2023 5:36 am

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The Essence of Consent and Respect

Glee greetings, !


I hope this musing finds you well. Today, I want to discuss a topic that continues to be essential in our lives but is often overlooked: consent and respect. It's astonishing how some people still underestimate the significance of these two words in various aspects of our lives.


Consent. Consent. Consent.

Consent, regardless of how minor a matter may seem, is non-negotiable. Whether it's a simple request or a significant decision, the presence of consent should always be a prerequisite. I'm afraid not everyone grasps the fundamental importance of asking for permission before taking action.


Respect. Respect. Respect.

Respecting boundaries and asking for consent go hand in hand. Those who truly value personal boundaries understand that asking permission is an act of respect. It's not about being submissive but about acknowledging the autonomy and choices of others.


What's disheartening is when individuals use their relationship status as an excuse to disregard your boundaries. Whether they are family, friends, or partners, it doesn't grant them the liberty to do as they please with you or your belongings.


Some individuals with a closed mindset may react negatively when called out on their behaviour. They might believe that their age or authority places them above you and entitles them to automatic compliance from you. Don't let them, .


Our generation, however, has broken free from this toxic mindset. We've taught ourselves the importance of self-respect and the courage to stand up for our boundaries. Some may label it as overreacting or disrespect, but it's not. It's about ensuring that we maintain our dignity and self-worth.


Asking for consent is not a difficult task. It's a fundamental act of respect that should be present in every interaction.


Let's continue to educate others about the importance of consent and respect in our lives. And if you are the type who doesn't respect boundaries nor ask for consent, change your ways, . You can do and be better.


Thank you for always reading my daily musings. You are amazing. Happy weekend!


Warm regards,

Jaachị "respects boundaries" Anyatọnwụ

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