Self-Importance Is Important

Glee greetings, ,

I hope this musing finds you in good health and high spirits. Today, I want to share a personal realization that has had a profound impact on my life and may resonate with you.

In a world where connection and validation often feel like a constant pursuit, it's easy to lose sight of our intrinsic worth. We may find ourselves going to great lengths to seek approval or validation from others, often at the expense of our own well-being. But what if we shifted our perspective?

The truth is, each one of us is valuable in our own right. Our worth is not contingent on the opinions or actions of others.

I don't chase people anymore. I learned that I'm here, and I'm important. I'm not going to run after people to prove that I matter.

I used to be the kind of person who chased after people. I would do anything to get their attention, to make them like me. But I've learned that's not the way to live. I'm here, and I'm important. I'm not going to run after people to prove that I matter.

Learning to prioritize ourselves and our well-being is not selfish; it's an act of self-love and self-respect. It's about recognizing that we are here for a purpose, and our journey is uniquely ours.

Why Did I Stop?

There are a few reasons why I stopped chasing people.

1. I realized that it was a waste of my time and energy.

When I'm chasing someone, I'm not focusing on myself or my own happiness. I'm too busy trying to figure out how to make them like me. And that's not a healthy way to live.

2. I realized that I was setting myself up for disappointment.

When I chase someone, I'm putting all my eggs in one basket. I'm hoping that this one person will make me happy, and if they don't, I'm left feeling lost and alone. But I've learned that my happiness doesn't depend on someone else. It depends on me.

3. I realized that I was worth more than that.

I'm a valuable person, and I deserve to be treated with respect. I don't need to chase after people to prove my worth. I know who I am, and I'm confident in myself.

So, I'm done chasing people. I'm not going to waste my time and energy on people who don't value me. I'm going to focus on myself and my own happiness. And I know that if I do that, I'll attract the right people into my life.

When we stop chasing after people and external validation, we create space for something beautiful to happen. We allow ourselves to grow and evolve authentically. We attract those who appreciate and respect us for who we are, rather than who we try to be for their sake.

This shift in mindset is liberating. It frees us from the burden of constantly seeking others' approval and allows us to focus on what truly matters: our own growth, happiness, and self-fulfillment. It empowers us to set boundaries, say no when necessary, and invest our energy in relationships that nourish our souls.

So, my dear , I invite you to join me on this journey of self-importance and self-worth. Let's remind ourselves daily that we are important, just as we are. Let's stop running after people who don't value us and start embracing those who do. Together, we can create a world where each of us knows our worth and lives authentically.

If you're someone who's been chasing people, I encourage you to stop. It's not worth it. Focus on yourself and your own happiness, and you'll attract the right people into your life.

With ❤️,

Jaachị Anyatọnwụ: a poet, editor, and publisher who is passionate about helping people live their best lives. I believe that everyone deserves to be happy and fulfilled, and I am committed to sharing my insights and experiences to help others achieve their goals.