Finding Time for What Matters

Hello, dear ,

I hope this newsletter finds you well and thriving. Today, I want to delve into a thought that has been on my mind lately: the concept that "Nobody is too busy for anybody." It's a notion that strikes a chord in today's ever-busy world, where time seems to slip through our fingers like sand. We often find ourselves juggling multiple tasks and commitments, wondering if we can spare a moment for those we care about.

We've all heard the saying, "Nobody is too busy." But do we really believe it? When someone tells us they're too busy to meet up, or to answer a text, or to give us their full attention, do we really think they're being honest?

Let's reflect on this idea together. Our time and attention are precious resources that we allocate based on what holds value to us. Think about it - when something or someone truly matters, we somehow manage to make time for them, no matter how jam-packed our schedules may seem. It's a reminder that our priorities and intentions shape the way we use our time.

I used to think that people were just being polite when they said they were too busy. But the older I get, the more I realize that there's often a lot of truth to it. People are busy. They have jobs, families, commitments. They have a lot on their plates.

But that doesn't mean that they're 'too' busy for the things that are important to them. If someone really cares about you, they'll make time for you. They'll find a way to fit you into their 'tight' schedule, no matter how busy they are.

Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule. Sometimes people are genuinely too busy. But if you find yourself constantly being put on the back burner, it's time to take a step back and reevaluate the relationship.

Our time and attention are naturally directed towards what we hold valuable. If someone doesn't make you a priority, it's because you're not a priority to them.

So don't waste your time on people who don't make the time for you. There are plenty of people out there who would be happy to give you their full attention.

As the saying goes, "the heart finds a way even in the busiest of hours." How beautifully this encapsulates the truth that when we deeply care for someone or something, we uncover hidden pockets of time. If someone really wants to be with you, they'll make it happen. These moments might be fleeting, but they carry immense significance. A quick call amidst meetings, a heartfelt message during a lunch break, a free few minutes break, or a simple gesture that shows someone they're on your mind.

So don't settle for anything less. You deserve to be with someone who makes you a priority no matter how busy they claim to be.

How to Deal with Busy People

If you're dealing with someone who is constantly too busy, here are a few tips:

• Be understanding. They may genuinely be too busy.
• Don't take it personally. If they don't make time for you, it's not because they don't care about you.
• Set boundaries. Let them know what you need from them in terms of time and attention.
• Don't be afraid to walk away. If they're not willing to make you a priority, you deserve better.

I challenge you to challenge the notion of being "too busy." Instead, consider if you're allocating our time in alignment with what truly matters to you. Ensure you are giving as much time the people who cherish and love you give to you.

Perhaps it's time to evaluate how you spend your days and whether your actions reflect your values. It's about being mindful of how you distribute your time, making conscious choices that resonate with your heart.

In a world that constantly demands your attention, make an effort to prioritize the people and experiences that bring you joy, consolation, fulfillment, and connection. Do not just find time, but create time for the ones you profess to love.

Remember, your time is valuable. Don't waste it on people who don't appreciate it. Also, don't waste it waiting on people who don't reciprocate your efforts.

I should add this too; if you are the one every loved one complains creates little or no time for them, be honest with yourself and with them. You create time for what matters to you. If they don't anymore, let them know. It frees them from the hurt of waiting in vain on you.

Let your heart guide you to weave those meaningful moments into your days, no matter how busy they may seem.

With timeless ❤️

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