Glee greetings, dear !

I hope this musing finds you well and happy. I'm writing to you today to share some important advice that I learned the hard way.

It doesn't matter how much you love them. Don't ever settle for someone who thinks they're doing you a favour by being with you!

They're toxic and can destroy your self-esteem in the long run.

You might think that they're the best thing that ever happened to you, that they're the only one who can make you happy, that they're the only one who can understand you.

But trust me, they're not.

They're the ones who make you doubt yourself, feel like you're not good enough, and feel like you owe them something.

They're the ones who manipulate, control, and abuse you.

They're the ones who don't respect, appreciate, and value you.

They're the ones who don't truly love, care about, or deserve you.

, you deserve so much better than that. You deserve someone who loves you for who you are, supports you in your dreams, and respects your boundaries.

You deserve someone who makes you feel happy, confident, and free.

You deserve someone who is your partner, your friend, your lover.

You deserve someone who is your equal, not your superior or your inferior.

You deserve someone who is your blessing, not your burden.

So please, don't ever settle for less than you deserve. Don't ever let anyone make you feel like you're not enough. Lastly, don't ever let anyone take away your power.

You are enough. You are powerful. You are amazing. And you deserve to be loved aright.

Until I write you again, stay smart and sane.

With ❤️,

Jaachị Anyatọnwụ