Glee greetings ,

It's your muser, Jaachị Anyatọnwụ, and I'm here with some real talk for you this Saturday. You know how it is, right? Everywhere you turn today, na marriage, marriage, asoebi, asoebi. Love is in the air, they say. But hold up, let's wear face mask, pause and reflect for a sec.

Picture this: The worst prison in the whole wide world is a home without peace. True that, right?

So , before you start God whenning or take that leap into holy matrimony, lemme drop some wisdom: Be extra careful who you say "I do" to. Woe betide you if you "I do" yourself into a warzone.

See, marriage no be joke, . It's a beautiful thing when you find the right person, but it can be pure wahala if you rush into it without thinking. Don't let those wedding bells cloud your judgment, . Take your time to know your partner, inside out, like party jollof rice.

Ask yourself, do they bring you peace and happiness or K-drama and enduring heartache? Are they the yin to your yang, or do y'all clash like Nigerian Army and IPOB? You don't want be stuck in a never-ending Asabawood drama, trust me.

Remember, love is sweet, but love alone won't make a marriage work. It takes understanding, respect, and a whole lot of patience. Plus, you need to be on the same wavelength about your future goals and values. Yes, you both need to sync.

So , take it slow, and don't rush into marriage just 'cause everyone else is doing it. Your happiness and peace are too precious to gamble with. Find that person who'll ride with you through thick and thin, like a loyal danfo conductor sticks to his driver no matter how bad the roads, terrible the traffic, or toxic the passengers.

And if you're already hitched and struggling with peace in your home, don't lose hope. Seek help, talk it out, and remember, it's never too late to make things better.

Alright, that's it from me today. Stay blessed, stay wise, and let love lead. Udo!

With ❤️,

Jaachị "unmarried" Anyatọnwụ