The year I stopped showing up

Jun 21, 2026 11:46 pm

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I used to do ONLY parent coaching.


Five years straight. No breaks. Not even during Chinese New Year.

I still showed up.


Every tantrum. Every meltdown. Every exhausted mom or dad sitting across from me, hoping I had the magic words to fix everything.


And honestly? I loved it.


But here's what I didn't tell anyone:

I was running on empty for at least two of those years.


I thought taking a break meant letting people down. I thought pausing meant failing. So I just kept going. Chinese New Year? Showed up. Sick? Showed up. Exhausted? Showed up.


Until one day I couldn't.


That's when I realized something uncomfortable.


I had been teaching parents to take care of themselves while completely failing to take care of myself.


So I stepped back. Not because I stopped caring. Because I finally understood that you can't pour from an empty cup — even if that cup really, really wants to help.


Now I do things differently. I share all the best-kept language-learning secrets through self-study courses at really affordable prices.


So I can truly take a break.


And that's what I wanted to share with you today.


No lesson. No offer. Just a reminder: if you're running on empty, it's okay to pause.


The work will still be there when you get back.


Talk soon,

Ms. Truda

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