Psychology of Attraction, Kink & Fetish
Nov 12, 2020 2:57 am
Intimacy Matters
Hi
Only 7 weeks until 2021!
Boy has it been a very weird year for us all. Never before has the world been so united in an experience. With news yesterday that a covid 19 vaccine has been created ( time will tell ) maybe the proverbial light can be glimpsed at the end of the pandemic tunnel. If this is the case then 2021 should prove to be a year of great appreciation.
The simple things like touching, hugging, dancing and laughing en mass, concerts, theatre, parties, ceremonis and events, the list of ordinary things we have missed is endless. I don't know about you but as soon as I can I am going to host many gatherings. I miss the energy of our tribal connection. Zoom helps but it will never replace the real thing. That said come join me for a couple of Zoom events I am holding this month.
Keep well and safe
Colin
The Psychology of Attraction Zoom Talk - 25th November 7pm (UK Time)
How can I avoid conflict in my relationships. How can i understand better another persons point of view, how can i support better my partner, work colleges and friends, why do I always meet the same type of guy /girl; end relationships the same way; feel afraid of commitment; feel in need of security; get great sex but lousy life partners; meet nice guys/girls but lousy lovers; fall for abusive partners; attract attention seekers; always go for older guys/girls; want a younger partner; feel anxious when having sex; can't achieve the sexual fulfilment i want; experience anxiety when having sex.
These are just some of the relationship and sexual performance challenges that I will be talking about and by introducing you to the Imago philosophy I will show how our early life experiences can unconsciously influence our behaviours in later life.
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The Psychology of Kink & Fetish Zoom Talk - 1st December 7pm (UK Time)
In this talk, Colin presents his theories on what he believes influences us to have a sexual fantasy, fetish or kink. This refreshing entertaining talk is mostly taken from his unique field of work as sex engineer, rather than academic research.
We are not born with them so something must influence us to develop them and there must be a reason why we want to experience them. This talk briefly explores the possible biological, psychological and anthropological motivations that could be at the root of our sexual and emotional imaginations and behaviors.
Colin gives insight into real stories about real people who enjoy a fetish or kink and then offers his own opinion, which can sometimes be controversial, that is based on past case studies and his knowledge of the Imago process (Harvil Hendrix & Helen Hunt, Imagorelationships.org). ' The brain has an unconscious drive is to fulfill missed development or to repair the damage done in childhood, or needs not met, by finding a partner or behavior that can give us what our caretakers failed to provide.
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