Intimacy Matters in July

Latest Articles, Treatments, Classes

& Party Dates

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Articles

First-time tips for sleeping with someone new

For many, that first time sleeping with someone new can be an electrifying experience. For others, it can be awkward. One thing is for sure, the focus of dating seems to be on sex more than ever before. Clear data on how long the average person waits before they have sex with a new partner is difficult to find, but with the advent of dating apps like Tinder and Grindr, a quick fix is the order of the day for many. But what if you’re looking for something more long-term? How should you approach matters of sex with a new partner? Is there a ‘too soon’? Does the ‘three date rule’ matter? And what are the downfalls of jumping straight into bed with someone new? This article aims to answer all those questions and more… Click here to read more.

Sexual guilt & shame: is your cultural background affecting your sex life?

Many positive and exciting factors arise from the rich cultural landscape that makes up our global community. Sadly, many cultures often bring unwanted beliefs and doctrines that can suffocate those who have grown up learning them, many linked to sexual guilt and shame. These directly relate to how we behave in relationships and, specifically, how comfortable we are with matters of sex. The problem is not linked to one specific country, culture or religion. In fact, most cultures carry with them some values and beliefs that can be severely limiting when it comes to enjoying a normal and fulfilling sex life. 

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Anorgasmia - Why can't I orgasm

As a sex engineer and relationship therapist, I often use a combination of counselling and massage as a treatment to help people with sexual performance challenges. I call this treatment Psychosensual. By combining talk and touch, I first find out the psychological drivers causing any interference with sexual fulfilment. I then follow this with a specially designed intimate bodywork treatment to create an experience that is as near to the usual sexual arousal cycle as possible but remains within the therapeutic boundaries between myself and the client. This psychosensual treatment can give remarkable results, sometimes overcoming a sexual performance blockage in just one session; however, if the client has difficulty reaching orgasm due to past trauma or experiences high anxiety or trust issues. A three-session series is recommended. Click here to read more

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Sensual Massage Classes

To enhance your and your partner's sex life

For Men, Women & Couples - Run on a date to suit you.

Colin runs a variety of classes teaching sensual massage and enhanced foreplay techniques. Provided Colin is free, these can be booked on any date and time from 9 am to 10 pm on weekdays (weekends 1 pm to 8 pm) in 2.5, 5, 10 or 20-hour sessions. The massage practice is given to vetted female or male volunteer receivers. To read more, Click here for more details.

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Forthcoming Parties

The Dinner & Decadence Couples & Singles Party, October 7th

Tickets on sale

An evening of sophisticated adult fun in the company of like-minded, discerning people.

At a Dinner & Decadence Party, up to ten couples and five single females and five single males, come together to enjoy an adult lifestyle evening of social interaction, sensual adventure and erotic exploration. Starting with a champagne reception welcomed by the hosts, the evening continues with an excellent three-course meal accompanied by a specialist wine, with each course located at a fashionable London Chelsea restaurant in Kings Road. The now famous afterparty is discreetly held nearby in a private residence from 10.30 am to 3 am. The after-party is where guests can relax and enjoy intimacy, sensual massage and erotic exploration. This is to be explored and appreciated but not expected. Our motto is Pleasure, Not Pressure.

Complete your application form, and the ticket link will be sent to you. Click here for more details.

The Libertine Lunch - Couples & Singles Lunch Party, Sundays December 3rd & January 21st 2024

Tickets on Sale

Sunday 1.30 pm to 9 pm - Perfect for couples who can't be out too late

Designed to be exclusive yet friendly and non-ostentatious, this daytime version of the Dinner & Decadence Party runs along the same lines as all our previous D & D parties. Still based in Chelsea, it is held in the afternoon/early evening from 1.30 pm until 9. pm. Colin and his partner Clare personally host the Libertine Lunch Party with the help of a naked butler and guest masseurs. Guest numbers are limited to around 30 as we only accept a maximum of ten mixed-gender or same-gender couples and ten singles ( five female & five male ). Complete your application form, and the ticket link will be sent to you. Click here for more details.

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Sensual Massage Treatments

Sensual Massage For Women

• The Absolute Premium Massage – 2 hands 105 minutes £295
• The Absolute Superior Massage – 2 hands 75 minutes £250
• The Absolute Focus Massage – 2 hands 50 minutes £200
• The Intimacy Massage – 2 hands 60 minutes light arousal £195
• The Exploration Massage – 2 hands 90 minutes medium arousal £230
• The Four Hands Massage – 4 hands with two masseurs from £400
• The Psychosensual Treatment – 3 hours talk & touch treatment to overcome intimacy and arousal challenges £395

Sensual Massage For Men & Couples

Men - Male to Male 2 Hands Massage & M/F 4 Hands Massage - Click here

Couples - Re-ignite Sexual Energy with a Cuckold or Tandem Massage experience

To check availability or book your appointment

Online - Click here

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