Intimacy Matters For Women

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The importance of erotic arousal for women

Regular sensual massage enables women to experience erotic arousal to help maintain their health and well-being without judgment or condition.

Erotic arousal and sex are a significant part of a woman’s life. Aside from relationship and reproduction, sex is about intimacy, pleasure, good physical and mental health, escapism and adventure. Sexual activity such as penile-vaginal intercourse or masturbation can benefit all facets of your life, including the physical, intellectual, emotional, psychological, and social. However, both have conditions or limitations that can make the experience counterproductive. 

Sensual Massage - The 4th Option

Mostly, sexual arousal and orgasm are experienced by women in three ways:-

Option 1, with a partner – intimacy is intimate, trusting, and caring but also can become routine, unimaginative and, at worst, infrequent.

Option 2, with a stranger (one night stand) – this can be exciting, spontaneous, non-emotional and without commitment but also can be impulsive and unprepared, risky, and disappointing.

Option 3. Self-masturbation is usually private; you know what you like, no judgment, but it can be familiar, routine, satisfying, but not mind-blowing.

The 4th option

Taking a sensual massage is the 4th option that combines the positive dynamics of one, two and three. But removes the negative to create a uniquely self-indulgent, fulfilling erotic experience that women often regard as an important pleasurable therapeutic release. 

To read more about what sensual massages are available, Click Here

Am I OK to do this?

I often hear from prospective female clients who, although interested in taking a sensual massage, say they are nervous and concerned about safety, discretion, and entitlement and, for some, have a sense of guilt and feelings of inappropriateness. Consequently, they hold back from taking the massage for weeks, sometimes months, even years. 

A comment I often hear after treatment is, "I wish I had done this sooner". So, I felt that hearing the genuine opinions of past female clients and their experience of sensual massage would help the decision process.

Just Launched For Peace of Mind

The Intimacy Matters Review Chat Group

This is a women-only Telegram chat group where women considering taking a sensual massage for the first time (for whatever reason) can learn more about sensual massage from women who have experienced it as part of their journey of sexual reclamation and exploration.

How to join the chat group

The chat group is on Telegram and is called IM Review Group For Women Only. In this group are twenty past female clients volunteering to express their thoughts and feelings about sensual massage and what it has done for them.

How to join

1. If you don't have it already, download the Telegram chat app on your phone or computer - https://telegram.org
2. If you have Telegram, click on this link and go straight to IM Review Group For Women 
3. Once in the group, feel free to ask any questions, and others will answer.
4. If you require a private chat request to have a DM conversation.
5. You can use a false name, and you don't need to give any personal details you don't want to
6. Please include a small profile image of yourself to guarantee identity, as this is a women-only group, and men attempting to join will be blocked.
7. If you prefer not to add an image to your profile, please send an image by DM to Colin, who officiates the group, to affirm your female identity.

Consider which massage is best for you.

When choosing a massage, you must consider your goals and objectives for the experience. If you're starting on a journey of sexual discovery, it's advisable to take things slow and explore the various options. What you might imagine may not be the reality, so it's essential to be mindful before booking your massage. See Massage Options Here