Intimacy Matters in June

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& Party Dates

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Articles

Sexual frustration: the most common issues affecting women and how to fix them

Sexual frustration is one of the most common reasons for relationships to break down, and sexual tension affects all relationships at some time or another. A leading cause of depression and mental illness according to recent research, the causes of long-term sexual frustration for women can be rooted in several different things, such as feeling sexually rejected by your partner, sexual anxiety problems, worrying about how you look or a general lack of intimacy in the relationship. This article will deal with the sexual frustrations often suffered by women and what can be done to reignite the spark and bring intimacy back into your relationship. Read the full article

Nurturing long-term love and how to get the spark back in a relationship.

Long-term relationships are rewarding – it’s why so many of us settle down and cohabit or get married, committing to monogamy with someone we love. But I am frequently asked by straight and gay couples and individuals alike how to get the spark back in a relationship because long-term sexual relationships can also be complex and hard work. Most people don’t appreciate the significant impact of millions of years of evolutionary behaviours that are genetically and behaviourally imprinted onto modern humans. Ancient man’s approach to coupling was almost exclusively about reproduction, much like we see in animal species. Males sought out as many females to impregnate as possible, sowing their seed far and wide to father as many offspring as possible and continue their genetic line. On the other hand, females were biologically preoccupied with attracting strong and virile men to provide for their future brood – note the plural. Research has proved that neither was monogamous; the prime concern was to maximise their reproductive potential and aid humanity in survival. Read the full article

How to pleasure a woman

The art of foreplay for men giving to women

From child to young adult, most of us receive at least an adequate education in a myriad of subjects intended to prepare us for life. Maths, science, chemistry and geography ,to name a few, and if we find any subject difficult, we can get extra tuition. But when it comes to the most necessary and normal part of being a successful human – having a fulfilling and intimate sex life (and for men, how to pleasure a woman), there is no curriculum for this. Schools teach basic biology, pregnancy and STIs. Parents mostly avoid the subject; doctors are too clinical; porn is too unrealistic. Your friends don’t know much more than you. This is why investing time and income to learn how to be the best lover you can be is necessary for your partner’s fulfilment and your confidence and self-esteem. Read the full article

Chris is 25 years old; this is his story and experience of sexual wellness treatment.

So I first came across Colin’s s work via another individual working within the sexology world, and also London based. In attempting to find ways and methods to remedy my sexual issues of dysfunction and lack of pleasure, I began researching what exists in the sexological world and what could be available to me. So I came across a tantric massage practitioner and masturbation coach, London-based, relatively local to me. I had an initial Zoom call with her quite some time before eventually contacting Colin, and I had some discussion with her following the original introduction that led to her recommending putting me in the way of Colin. Read the full article

It all started with Watermelons - XO sexual performance enhancer

Yes, it sounds funny, but it’s true. One day in 2011, Jahangir Khan, the mastermind behind XO®, read that new research revealed how watermelons contain the substance L-citrulline, which positively affects erectile function in males. The study was from a university in the USA; Texas A&M, it revealed that L-citrulline is converted into L-arginine, increasing the production of the signalling molecule nitric oxide (NO). This causes blood vessels to relax and thus delivers a faster blood flow to, e.g. the genitals. Since then, research has shown that increasing the amount of Nitric Oxide is good for the whole body. A slight increase in the blood flow benefits the sex life, mental clarity, and physical performance, slows down ageing, and helps the immune system. Watch the video of Colin interviewing the CEO of XO Pouline Middleton

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Classes

Private Sensual Massages Classes

For Men, Women & Couples - Run on a date to suit you

I run a variety of length of classes teaching sensual massage and enhanced foreplay techniques. Provided Colin is free, these can be booked on any date and time from 9 am to 10 pm on weekdays (weekends 1 pm to 8 pm) in 2.5, 5, 10 or 20-hour sessions. The massage practice is given to vetted female or male volunteer receivers. To read more, Click here.

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Forthcoming Parties

The Dinner & Decadence Party - London

Tickets are now on sale for Saturday, July 1st & October 7th

An evening of sophisticated adult fun in the company of like-minded, discerning people.

At a Dinner & Decadence Party, up to ten couples and five single females and five single males come together to enjoy an adult lifestyle evening of social interaction, sensual adventure and erotic exploration. Starting with a champagne reception welcomed by the hosts, the evening continues with an excellent three-course meal accompanied by a specialist wine, with each course, located at a fashionable London Chelsea restaurant in Kings Road. The now famous afterparty is discreetly held nearby in a private residence from 10.30 am to 3 am. The after-party is where guests can relax and enjoy intimacy, sensual massage and erotic exploration. This is to be explored and appreciated but not expected. Our motto is Pleasure, Not Pressure.

Complete your application form and the ticket link will be sent to you. Click here for more details.

The Libertine Lunch Couples & Singles Party, Sundays December 3rd & January 21st 2024

Designed to be exclusive yet friendly and non-ostentatious, this daytime version of the Dinner & Decadence Party runs along the same lines as all our previous D & D parties. Still based in Chelsea, it is held in the afternoon/early evening from 1.30 pm until 9. pm. Colin and his partner Clare personally host the Libertine Lunch Party with the help of a naked butler and guest masseurs. Guest numbers are limited to around 30 as we only accept a maximum of ten mixed-gender or same-gender couples and ten singles ( five female & five male ). Complete your application form and the ticket link will be sent to you. Click here for more details.

Sensual Treatments

Sensual Massage For Women

• The Absolute Premium Massage – 2 hands 105 minutes £295
• The Absolute Superior Massage – 2 hands 75 minutes £250
• The Absolute Focus Massage – 2 hands 50 minutes £200
• The Intimacy Massage – 2 hands 60 minutes light arousal £195
• The Exploration Massage – 2 hands 90 minutes medium arousal £230
• The Four Hands Massage – 4 hands with two masseurs from £400
• The Psychosensual Treatment – 3 hours talk & touch treatment to overcome intimacy and arousal challenges £395

Sensual Massage For Men & Couples

Men - Male to Male 2 Hands Massage & M/F 4 Hands Massage - Click here

Couples - Re-ignite Sexual Energy with a Cuckold or Tandem Massage experience

To check availability or book your appointment

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