Intimacy Matters

News, Classes, Parties & Group Workshops Spring 2023

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Men & Masturbation

Last month, Maria Cristina Lalonde interviewed me for the world's largest online sexual health platform Giddy. The topic was male masturbation, particularly how to incorporate what was once considered by many men as a private pastime to become part of sex with a partner or even for the partner to take this in hand for themselves.

Excerpt from article

For one 30-year-old video producer in Austin, Texas, it started with photos of women in swimsuits. "My family had a computer in the living room," he said, recalling his early forays into masturbation. "When my parents would go to the grocery store, I would go on, Google image search 'Maxim models' and that would get the job done." After graduating from Maxim models, the video producer progressed to pleasuring himself with "sexy dancing videos" and, eventually, porn. Regardless of the choice of stimuli, his masturbation experience remained fairly constant over the next decade........ Read More

Ladies, help me to help Gillian Anderson.

Gillian Anderson is writing a book on women and sexuality and wants to hear women’s fantasies.

The Sex Education actress has been inspired to collect the deepest and most personal erotic thoughts of her female contemporaries. Gillian Anderson is having a life-imitates-art moment if her Sex Education character is anything to go by. Anderson, 54, plays uninhibited sex therapist Jean Milburn in the show, a character with an easy attitude towards physical intimacy and a ready willingness to discuss intercourse without fear of judgement. In announcing her new project, Gillian has also called for women to write to her personally with their sexual fantasies and stories – some of which will be published in the book.

To read more about Gillian's project, Click Here

Why I want to help Gillian

As many of my clients will know, for the past 18 years of my work, normalising sex has been my passion. Helping women, men, and couples understand and explore their sexuality to become mentally and physically healthier, happier, and whole human beings. I have always taken a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy. When I work with a client, I do so by looking at the biological, psychological, emotional, anthropological and pleasurable aspects of sex.

In working with women, I understand that female sexuality is deeply profound. Men may think they are the sexual champions, but in reality, women lead the field because they know that good sex is not a race to the finish line but a journey of adventure and discovery without a necessary goal. This is why I want to help Gillian achieve her passion for writing a book that applauds the sexual fantasies and erotic imaginations of women. I firmly believe that when women are free to express their sexuality without guilt and judgment, the world can become a better place. 

Private Sensual Massages Classes

For Men, Women & Couples - Run on a date to suit you

I run a variety of length of classes teaching sensual massage and enhanced foreplay techniques. These can be booked on a date and time, anytime from 9 am to 10 pm on weekdays or weekends 1 pm to 8 pm in 5, 10 or 20-hour sessions. The massage practice is given to vetted female or male volunteer receivers. To read more, Click here.

Intimacy Matters Boutique Workshops 2023

These small group workshops are designed to give an introduction to the pleasures of sensual massage. Sensual massage is not an alternative to sexual pleasure but an enhancement. Women know that taking time increases the intensity of erotic arousal, and many men have yet to find out the joy of receiving and giving slow creative foreplay. Attend a boutique workshop, and your perspective on lovemaking will expand in four hours and give you a dimension of pleasure that will be with you for life. No matter your age, gender, or orientation, sensual massage is a skill everyone can acquire.

A boutique workshop is for up to four persons working in pairs on specially selected volunteer receivers. Couples practice on partners. Generally, starting at 7 pm and finishing at 11 pm. The location is the Intimacy Matters Treatments rooms in Chelsea SW3 3LH.

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Massage My Woman Boutique Group Workshop

Thursday 23rd February 7 pm to 11 pm

A boutique group workshop for men who like to give sensual pleasure to women

A four-hour small group workshop, teaching men the art of giving sensual massage to women and incorporating imaginative sex play techniques for their female partners to experience enhanced foreplay and deeper pleasure. This group workshop includes practical sessions giving sensual massage to specially selected female volunteer receivers. Location Chelsea London. For more details and to apply for this workshop, Click here

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Massage My Man Boutique Group Workshop

Thursday 9th March - 7 pm to 11 pm

Thursday 23rd March - 7 pm to 11 pm

A boutique group workshop for women who like to give sensual pleasure to men

This 4-hour evening boutique workshop is for a maximum of 4 women practising on up to 4 male volunteers in 2 sensual massage practice sessions.

This sensual massage workshop is perfect for a woman who wants to enhance her confidence in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to men.

Working in pairs and rotating between each male volunteer receiver, you are taught a step-by-step sensual massage routine. The Massage My Man group boutique workshop teaches both therapeutic and sensual strokes to create gradual arousal, building to a crescendo of erotic touch. This teaching will also include specific techniques such as... Click here

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Dinner & Decadence Party - London

Tickets are now on sale for ......

• Saturday, March 11th - Fully Booked
• Friday, May 19th - Tickets on sale
• Saturday, July 1st - Tickets on sale

An evening of sophisticated adult fun in the company of like-minded, discerning people.

At a Dinner & Decadence Party, up to ten couples and five single females and five vetted single males, come together to enjoy an adult lifestyle evening of social interaction, sensual adventure and erotic exploration.

Starting with a champagne reception welcomed by the hosts, the evening withcontinues an excellent three-course meal accompanied by a specialist wine, with each course, located at a fashionable London Chelsea restaurant in the King Road.

The now famous afterparty is discreetly held nearby in a private residence from 10.30 am to 3 am. The after-party is where guests can relax and enjoy intimacy, sensual massage and erotic exploration this is to be explored and enjoyed but not expected. Our motto is pleasure not pressure

Book your ticket

Hurry to purchase your ticket, as parties book up fast. March is already fully booked, with May and July just going on sale now. Complete your application form and then the ticket link will be sent to you. Click here for more details.

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Private Sensual Massages Classes

For Men, Women & Couples - Run on a date to suit you

I run a variety of length of classes teaching sensual massage and enhanced foreplay techniques. These can be booked on a date and time, anytime from 9 am to 1 pm in 5, 10 or 20-hour sessions. The massage practice is given to vetted female or male volunteer receivers. To read more, Click here

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Sensual Massage Treatments at Intimacy Matters

Sensual Massage For Women

• The Absolute Premium Massage – 2 hands 105 minutes £270
• The Absolute Superior Massage – 2 hands 75 minutes £220
• The Absolute Focus Massage – 2 hands 50 minutes £185
• The Intimacy Massage – 2 hands 60 minutes light arousal £180
• The Exploration Massage – 2 hands 90 minutes medium arousal £200
• The Four Hands Massage – 4 hands with two masseurs from £350
• The Psychosensual Treatment – 3 hours talk & touch treatment to overcome intimacy and arousal challenges £370

Sensual Massage For Men & Couples

Men - Male to Male 2 Hands Massage & M/F 4 Hands Massage - Click here

Couples - Re-ignite Sexual Energy with a Cuckold or Tandem Massage experience

To check availability or book your appointment

Online - Click here

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