Intimacy Matters - March into Spring ( at last ! )
Feb 27, 2026 4:52 pm
Intimacy Matters
In this email
Article - The 4th Option
Article - Couples Exploring ENM & Swinging
Sensual Massage Play Parties
Sensual Massage Courses
Sensual Massage Treatments
Sensual Connect Meetup Event ( all welcome )
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Why sensual massage is the 4th Option for women
The positive attributes of erotic massage for women
Over the past twenty years, working as a Sex & Relationship Engineer, I have had the privilege of supporting hundreds of women in exploring and improving the psychological, emotional, and physiological aspects of their intimate lives. During this time, I have delivered more than 6,000 hours of guided sensual massage to women of all ages, cultural backgrounds, body types, and relationship situations. No two women arrive for a session with the same story. Some are confidently and happily single, enjoying their independence but wishing to remain connected to their sensual selves.
Others are single but would prefer not to be, and are seeking a way to maintain a positive, embodied relationship with their sexuality while they navigate the dating world. Many are in loving partnerships where emotional connection is strong, yet the sexual dynamic has become routine, infrequent, or unsatisfying. There are also women in otherwise healthy relationships who simply want more — more variety, more confidence, more pleasure, and a deeper understanding of their own arousal.
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Why More Couples Are Exploring Consensual Non-Monogamy
In recent years, there has been a noticeable increase in couples choosing to expand the boundaries of traditional monogamy. Rather than signalling a lack of love or commitment, many partners describe this as a conscious, negotiated decision to explore desire, novelty, and personal growth while maintaining their primary emotional bond. The key distinction in these arrangements is consent, communication, and clarity of intention.
Different Models of “Opening Up”
Swinging is typically a recreational, shared activity. Couples attend events or meet others specifically for sexual experiences that both partners participate in or observe. The emphasis is often on playfulness, novelty, and shared excitement, with clear rules about what is and is not permitted. Emotional exclusivity within the primary relationship is usually maintained.
Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a broader framework. Couples may allow independent experiences with others, sometimes including ongoing connections, but with full transparency and agreed boundaries. This model requires strong communication skills and emotional resilience, as it introduces time, energy, and sometimes attachment beyond the couple.
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Couples Play Parties
Now taking bookings for
8th March, 9th May, 4th July.
The perfect afternoon occasion for couples to enjoy the company of like-minded couples to talk, touch, and tease for a few hours away
The Sensual Massage Play Party is an extraordinary and intimate event designed for those eager to explore the art of sensual touch and erotic foreplay in a sophisticated, welcoming atmosphere. This unique event brings together like-minded couples to connect, exchange experiences, and deepen their sensual skills in a safe and inviting space.
For those new to sensual exploration, the event offers a relaxed, no-pressure environment where you can simply chat, observe, or get involved at a pace that feels comfortable for you. It's the perfect setting to dip your toes into a world of erotic discovery without any expectations. Click here to learn more
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Sensual Massage Courses
From the 3-hour taster session to the 26-hour professional practitioner training
To learn about the various 1-1 classes Intimacy Matters offers, all with optional volunteer models to practice on, click the links in yellow below. Prices displayed are before applying the above discounts. Payment can be made by bank transfer, debit or credit card, PayPal or cash.
Courses for personal learning
Courses for professional practitioner training
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Sensual Massage Treatments
Personal Pleasure - Enjoy your own sensual massage and discover new sensations and ultimate fulfilment
Resurrect your libido - A sensual massage is a wonderful way for women to restart a lost libido
Help with sexual challenges - The Psychosensual Treatment is designed to help with issues with attaining orgasm, maintaining erections and other performance frustrations
For women, men and couples
Given by an expert with 20 years of experience
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Click here to learn more about these massage treatments.
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Sensual Connect Social Meet Up
March 19th 6.30 pm to 9.30 pm
This social event is for members of Sensual Connect, clients of Intimacy Matters and anyone else who enjoys or is curious about this fast-growing community of lovers of sensual massage and creative foreplay
In January we had over 45 guests, so dont miss the opportunity to meet and connect with others who are keen to expand their intimate lives
Held at the Knox Bar in Sloane Square, Chelsea, London SW1W 8EG
One minute from Sloane Square tube station
Ticket £15 per person includes a drink on arrival
Click here
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