Intimacy Matters

The Intimacy Centre Survey - Please help

My aim is to establish the UK’s (maybe he worlds) first Intimacy Centre

A safe place to explore, enhance, educate, and entertain all things sensual and sexual. Run by professionals in sexology, psychology, sensual and sexual body work and hospitality.

So far I have received 176 completed survey forms and the results are looking very favourable with much interest and support being offered. However to find potential venue owners and investors I need more forms completed. So if you have 10 minutes free time PLEASE..... Take the Survey

Results will be published in my next email

Anorgasmia - Experiencing anorgasmia in sex is like eating great food but tasting no flavours.

If ever there was a justification for an Intimacy Centre then hearing the challenges someone experiencing Anorgasmia has will certainly go a long way to dispel archaic attitudes to giving people a place to understand their sexuality better.

Amongst my clients are men and women who come to me for help with challenges reaching orgasm. Not all find orgasm impossible and most have experienced an orgasm at some time, mostly through masturbation but then often have difficulty reaching orgasm when with another person. 

Secondary Anorgasmia 

This inability to orgasm when with a partner is called secondary anorgasmia and is experienced by men and women but often with men it can progress into the loss of erection so erectile problems can also be regarded as a form of anorgasmia. 

Primary Anorgasmia

Primary anorgasmia, when a person has never been able to orgasm, even through masturbation, is more common with women. It can be that there is a physiological reason for the orgasm to be unattainable. Hence, conditions such as diabetes, multiple sclerosis, genital mutilation, total hysterectomy, spinal cord injury, need to be ruled out before seeking emotional or practical help. Drug abuse, excessive alcohol and antidepressants can also inhibit orgasm.

In this article.

Psychological effecting the physiological

I focus on the most common origin of anorgasmia which is the psychological, when learned survival behaviours from childhood interfere with the natural sexual arousal cycle. Click here to read this article on how I help women and men who experience anorgasmia

Colin's Psychology of Attraction Zoom Talk

Wednesday 25th November 7pm (UK Time)

How can I avoid conflict in my relationships. How can i understand better another persons point of view, how can i support better my partner, work colleges and friends, why do I always meet the same type of guy /girl; end relationships the same way; feel afraid of commitment; feel in need of security; get great sex but lousy life partners; meet nice guys/girls but lousy lovers; fall for abusive partners; attract attention seekers; always go for older guys/girls; want a younger partner; feel anxious when having sex; can't achieve the sexual fulfilment i want; experience anxiety when having sex.

These are just some of the relationship and sexual performance challenges that I will be talking about and by introducing you to the Imago philosophy I will show how our early life experiences can unconsciously influence our behaviours in later life. Click here to buy tickets & more details

The Psychology of Kink & Fetish Zoom Talk

Wednesday 1st December 7pm (UK Time)

In this talk, Colin presents his theories on what he believes influences us to have a sexual fantasy, fetish or kink. This refreshing entertaining talk is mostly taken from his unique field of work as sex engineer, rather than academic research. 

We are not born with them so something must influence us to develop them and there must be a reason why we want to experience them. This talk briefly explores the possible biological, psychological and anthropological motivations that could be at the root of our sexual and emotional imaginations and behaviors. 

Colin gives insight into real stories about real people who enjoy a fetish or kink and then offers his own opinion, which can sometimes be controversial, that is based on past case studies and his knowledge of the Imago process (Harvil Hendrix & Helen Hunt, Imagorelationships.org). ' The brain has an unconscious drive is to fulfill missed development or to repair the damage done in childhood, or needs not met, by finding a partner or behavior that can give us what our caretakers failed to provide. Click here to buy tickets & more details

November At Intimacy Matters

25% reduction for UK Residents on all London Bridge treatments until December 2nd

I am open for sensual massage and psychosensual treatments. Go to your respective page of interest to find out cost and what is available.

Click Here - Women's Treatments

Click Here - Men's Treatments

Click Here - Couples Treatments

Quote NOV25 when making your booking -

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All the best

Colin

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