Hola ,
I know it’s Saturday so you have fun and rest on your mind.
Unless some social event dragged you out of your me-time.
Let me share with you something I discovered a few years ago that helped me “buy back” my me-time from social events.
I learned to evaluate social events on whether my presence would be missed or not.
For the ones that my presence would not be missed, I have an option – to attend or not to attend.
I now weigh my attendance against my well-being - does my need for emotional, mental or, physical rest outweigh my showing up?
If my well-being needs tips the scale but my relationship with the person puts me in a difficult position, that is when the buy-back option comes in.
Let me give you an example. A former colleague of mine had an event that would take me a considerable commute time due to traffic. If I went, my whole Saturday was toast.
But I wanted to honor her.
I went and bought a gift that she would appreciate in honor of the event.
I showed up at her office days before the event to give her the gift and apologized that I would not be able to attend the event.
She was so happy – the way I did the whole gift thing showed her it was not an afterthought. It was an intentional plan to celebrate her milestone event even if I could not show up.
I was happy – I gave my body and mind the rest needed after a busy working week.
These are practices that you can learn and adapt after you attend the 3 Power Leverage for Successful Christian Living Online Live Training.
The class is still on at 75% discount and 3 great bonuses of a video course, a masterclass training and ebook with an audiobook.
I look forward to seeing you on the inside.
Now let's get back to a restful Saturday.
Tata
Tola - The Everyday Disciple
I help Christians like you who want to live intentional lives incorporate their faith into everyday life so they can make Christ focused decisions in all areas of life and truly live to make an impact and make God happy.
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