Justin Egliskis

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How to overcome the fear of your vision not working out (3 min read)

1/ Alignment with core values

 How to overcome the fear of your vision not working out



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1/ Alignment with core values



The mindset of "I will find a way".


Nobody will care for you more than you care for you. Take the time to understand who you are within. What matters to you. Alignment with values will create trust in yourself.



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2/ Identifying what you don't want



Now don't obsess over what you don't want.


But use it as a driver. All the moments when you feel like quitting - remind yourself of what made you start. Usually it's easier to know what you don't want than what you do want.



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3/ Act & think strategically



Your actions link to your emotions.


If you act aimlessly - you increase the odds you feel fear. Break your vision into a plan. Break that plan into habits. That which you do daily definitely compounds overtime.



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4/ Train your observation skills



You can't improve something you don't know could be better - right?


You train your observation via clarity. Meditation. Clean nutrition. Correct habits. Then you start to see previously hidden things reveal themselves.



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5/ Focus on skillset acquisition



What's the difference between the homeless and the wealthy?


One group focused on creating themselves into more valuable humans. The other group got distracted, addicted, and their misaligned focus led them down the dark road.



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6/ Accept nothing is out of place



There's not a single spec of dust out of place in this universe - Mr. Watts


Death. Injury. Devious action. Murder. War. Rape. What does it all mean? Well... It's the spectrum. Nothing is happening to you. You need one side to have the other.



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7/ Learn how to calm yourself



Breath work. Repetition of a mantra.


You could be a helpless victim. Or you could become a physically dominant human who is also psychologically advanced - someone who masters themselves.



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8/ Focus primarily on comparing to you



Don't be too delusional - pay attention to feedback.


But... Usually comparing to others isn't too helpful. Learn. Be open. All while mostly comparing to yesterdays version of you.



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9/ Put the hand you were dealt into account



We all having different starting positions.


Truth is - you can become whatever you want. But most of us have differing circumstances. Look for the gift within your positioning. There's a gift - you just gotta find it.



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10/ Stop wishing for things to be different



Wanting - wishing - should - all bullshit language.


Either you are that person who does it - creates it - or doesn't. It's that simple. Less talk and more proof through commitment to the path.



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11/ I appreciate you



Thank you for reading - sincerely.


What did you find most valuable here?  REPLY :-)


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P.S. Do you enjoy podcast?


Here's this weeks outdoor series episode:


Flow more - Stress less - Ego conversation



Let me know what you think!





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