You try to start conversations
You don't know what the problem is
But something just feels odd, like weak vibes
Issue is simple
You try too hard
People can feel that
They may not even be conscious that they feel it
Yet, it is obvious they do
So, stop trying so hard
Get honest about what ACTUALLY is DEEPLY meaningful to YOU
Because you will get to a point where you can't be ignored
An undeniable state of being
But, for now, you need to do this:
Look at when you get 'ignored'
Don't be soft and easily offendable
Ok honestly, ask yourself if it feels like you are forcing it.
To force is to push away.
Look at the laws of the ocean.
The tides come in and out.
You ever chase a butterfly?
Or any animal?
You'll see they run.
YOU GET IGNORED,
IT HURTS,
BUT IT IS FOR YOUR OWN BEST LIFE.
So here's the plan:
#1: answer the q "when in my life am I often forcing"
#2: list all areas in life where you force
#3: ask yourself and write a paragraph +
"what would my life be like if I stop forcing"
Bonus:
You must stay sharp. Use structure, have places to write down IDEAS every moment of the day. Be organized, filter those ideas every few days or so. This is how you stop forcing and therefore stop getting ignored. You start noticing more. Then your shots will be in line, fresh, powerful. Create a strong balance both philosophically and physically.
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