How to ease the poisonous pit which is envy and comparison:

Please, be patient with me here

I'm not implying you are walking around jealous of everyone and everything you see

But rather... You sometimes have moments where:

We need to wake up to see how UTTERLY USELESS fear, insecurity, and victimhood is...

And how these structures dance and tango nicely with envy and jealously

That our psychology, our lives, are much simpler and connected then we would see them to be

When one individual frees themselves from the pit of comparison, there's a light, a true shine that radiates

As to truly be a individual implies you are not a second hand human being, like many billion humans are

To do the internal work which allows one to see more clearly, and this clarity can be employed to notice when one begins to put the shackles back on

Because you don't just do the work and then your life is perfect

You do the work, and you see what happens when you don't do the work

Then it all becomes clear...

The contrast I'm referring to is when one is stuck in self centered insecurity taking the form of envy / jealously

VS...

When you are totally free from selfish thought and emotion and ACTUALLY are living in that moment, present, light and free...

I know you have had these moments before

We need to wake up to see how beautiful our lives truly can be

P.S.