Listen, to create confidence one first must see the nature behind lacking confidence.
It's not by chasing confidence while being driven by insecure roots and desires.
A true, unwavering strength in oneself can only be born when the nature of corruption has been deeply seen, when one has an INSIGHT into the nature of corruption.
So. What does a lack of confidence do?
One thinks a lot, due to second guessing themselves.
That second guessing leads to more thinking, in the form of an anxiety.
That anxiety, takes energy, as your mind is constantly chattering...
The mind which always chatters has 0 psychological freedom or space.
This lack of space and psychological freedom leaves one barely surviving, stuck in vicious, self-destructive cycles.
Do you see how this damn things builds and builds?
What is going to be the switch which causes one to snap out of a mechanical, vicious cycle?
Maybe it's just zooming out a bit, and seeing how this entire chain of events unravels.
It's truly an urgent matter, that more of us wake up to see from a holistic, birds eye view.
That we see the source of all suffering.
Now a lack of confidence is just one specific topic, but it all stems from the ever chattering mind.
Can one live in this world free from that insecure chatter?
You can. You absolutely can. Right?
But it calls for a true honesty. A WILLINGNESS, a COURAGE to be real with thyself and to know thyself.
To create confidence one must see so clearly how certain actions, certain ways of living breed anxiety.
And with that anxiety there cannot be space for insight into the nature of thought.
The mind must be silent for true insight to come into being.
One cannot force the silent mind.
But only through deeply seeing how diabolical self centered thought is, then the true insight will be naturally invited.
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