WPM:Daily Workplace Career Mentoring by Tola

All issues

The wrong reason to build trust

Workplace Multiplier by Tola Akinsulire


July 8, 2026

Welcome to the Workplace Multiplier newsletter. Published Monday to Friday, equipping you to achieve your professional goals faster and without burnout or overwhelm.



The wrong reason to build trust


Howdy ,


If you're being generous with your team hoping it'll make future criticism painless…stop.


That's not what trust is for.


Trust doesn't soften the message. It keeps the person in the room after you've delivered it.


Two very different things. Confuse them, and you'll be shocked the first time someone you've "always been good to" still reacts hard to hard feedback.


Here's the truth: they're allowed to react. Your job was never to prevent the reaction.


It was to build enough standing that the reaction doesn't end the relationship.


Keep winning at work and in life.


Tola Akinsulire

Your Strategic Workplace Mentor


Share
Get the next issue in your inbox
Free, and you can unsubscribe any time.

0 comments

More issues

All 441 →
#389 Jul 7, 2026

What two years of walking the halls bought me

Read issue →
#388 Jul 6, 2026

The trust you build isn't there to make demands painless

Read issue →