Geek Psychology by Matt Sherman

Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology Feb 1, 2026

why INFPs feel resentful, exhausted, and stuck.

You can't fill from an empty cup. I used to think that was just something people said to justify self-care. A nice…

Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology Jan 31, 2026

the only infp build that actually finishes things (and the three that don’t)

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Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology Jan 30, 2026

this question always motivates me

Would your past self be proud of you today? I ask myself this question more than I probably should. Not in a guilt…

Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology Jan 29, 2026

i used to think goal-setting was about willpower

Writing it down created intention. And intention changes behavior. I used to think goal-setting was about willpower.…

Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology Jan 28, 2026

this explains infjs a little better

INFJs lead with introverted intuition. The mystic. The part of you that sees three moves ahead, that reads the room…

Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology Jan 24, 2026

infp here, was in limerence for over 20 years

I spent 10 years obsessing over someone I barely knew. My brain kept her alive, replaying conversations that never…

Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology Jan 23, 2026

INFPs and understanding the deep, dark emotions of being human

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Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology Jan 23, 2026

how infps can get moving in life

You can't steer a parked car. You need to be moving to steer it. Same with your life. For INFPs stuck in the Fi-Si loop:…