My name is Wella. Or as my coworkers call me- Row A few years ago I got divorced. You can find out about my brief story here and here. Yes. I was devastated. I was ashamed. Never thought it would happen to me. The works. Why wouldn’t I? I was suppose...

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Oct 09, 2021
Don't Abandon Yourself

I came across this poem as one of my coworkers shared it on my workgroup thread. I don't normally pay attention to random, non-work-related posts on there unless it pertains to me. Turned out it did pertain to me, not in a direct but a relatable wa...

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Aug 22, 2021
I found a gem in Sudshare

         I don't normally write reviews for things I use, and I did not intend to convert my blog into a review site but hey, if this is where it goes eventually, then so be it. This is my world, so to speak. Wella's World. And I intend to share my w...

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Jun 15, 2021
Love Notes to Bella

My dear Bella,   Today you turn two years old. Well that happened so fast didn’t it? With that said, I’m not gonna go about the usual cheesy narration parents do on Facebook like “So many years ago, a baby came to our lives, etc. etc. and our l...

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Dec 30, 2020
Lessons from my Homeschooler

Last week my son Marcus celebrated his 7th birthday. 7th. It all happened in a blink of an eye I think. One Thursday morning I was surprised to find out Id be having him since he wasn't due for another month. The next thing I know here he is, a super...

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Jul 27, 2020
Brown is Beautiful

I never used to believe that. When I was young, I wanted so much to be light-skinned. I was born dark and I never understood why because my mom was super pale light, my sister takes after her and my brother is kinda light. In fact I asked myself quit...

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May 25, 2020

It's 12:34 am as I write this and yes, I'm well awake.Idk why, I'm just not tired. So I decided to do what I most love to do when everybody's off to their dreamland...and that's writing.I've been in love with this quiet activity for a long time now.I...

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Apr 30, 2020
36...

I turned 36 two weeks ago...it was uneventful but otherwise memorable. It was quiet and peaceful, spent with only the people that truly cared about me and vice versa. Mr. S bought a huge chocolate cake from Costco, I was actually quite impressed (wit...

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Jan 29, 2019

There’s so much that happened, so many truths that unfolded, so many lessons learned, so many hurt that needed overcoming and you’re here. Simply. Who would’ve thought?It’s not over yet, though. There’s still endeavors to face as you indulge yourself...

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Jan 07, 2019