Don't Let Someone Else Project Their Shortcomings Onto You!

Sometimes, when people have shortcomings in their lives, and they see you as a confident person who believes in yourself, they will try to plant their insecurities in your mind so that you end up performing at the level they are currently at.

During one of my experiences as a substitute teacher at a middle school, I had the opportunity to work alongside a co-teacher. She approached me and said, "You know, the main teacher cannot get this class under control; even the school principals have come to this class and couldn’t get it under control, so don't be upset when you won't be able to as well."

I looked at the young lady and said, "Well, what you all did is none of my business. Just because you cannot get this class under control doesn't mean the same will happen to me." So when the class started, they came in; they were rambunctious, acting foolish. As soon as the bell rang, I stood up in front of the class and laid down the law. I told them how things were going to proceed, what I would and would not tolerate, and what would get them kicked out of class. They figured out very quickly that I wasn't going to tolerate any nonsense.

The class sat down quietly and did their work. The co-teacher came up to me and said, "You know, I've never seen them this quiet." She decided to call the main teacher and let him listen to the silence in the classroom. She was shocked that they listened to me, and I said to her, as I had said before, "What happened to you guys has nothing to do with me."

The students were respectful throughout the entire class period because I am someone who will not let another person's shortcomings define me. It's the same in your life. Whatever you're trying to do, don't let someone else's shortcomings define you. 

Here are 3 ways you can keep someone from defining you with their shortcomings:

1) Establish Boundaries: Clearly define what is acceptable in your interactions with others. When someone projects negativity or doubt, remind yourself that their limitations are not yours. Politely but firmly communicate that you are focused on your own path and will not accept their shortcomings.

2) Develop Self-Confidence: Invest time in personal development to build your confidence. Engage in activities of your interest, such as reading, watching positive videos, movies, listening to podcasts, etc. Give yourself credit for the development and good you are producing in your life, and surround yourself with people who will encourage you and vice versa.

3) Practice Assertiveness: Learn to express yourself confidently and stand your ground in the face of negativity. If someone attempts to define you by their shortcomings, respond with confidence in your abilities and let them know you have high expectations for yourself.

Refuse to let someone else project their shortcomings onto you. Let them keep their own shortcomings, their lack of confidence, their lack of performance, and believe in yourself. Move forward knowing that you have what it takes to make things happen in your life because You Are WORTHY TO BE GREAT! 

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