Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

Imposter Syndrome makes you feel like a fraud, even if you have the skills, talent, and experience to be successful. 

This feeling can prevent you from reaching your full potential. If you’re dealing with this, I have some tips to help you overcome Imposter Syndrome so you can pursue your dreams.

Personal Journey: Impostor Syndrome

Imposter Syndrome can affect anyone, making them doubt their achievements. When I wanted to be a motivational speaker and author, I felt unsure even though I had the skills and qualifications. 

This doubt nearly cost me a life-changing opportunity. One day, I met John, a 60-year-old man who runs a program in a juvenile detention center. We sat down, and he said, “Tell me your story.”

I shared how I overcame the challenges of the hood, graduated college, and started my business.

John responded, “You have a great story that is very relatable to the guys in the detention center. I would like for you to come and speak to them. Would you be interested in doing so?”

At that moment, my Imposter Syndrome made me feel like a fraud; I thought I wasn’t credible enough to speak there. Despite having the story and credibility, I almost said no.

However, I ignored my doubts, which led to me not only speaking at the center but also running a program for two years, which eventually became my first book.

Emotional vs Logical Thinking

One of the key realizations in my battle with Imposter Syndrome was the difference between emotional and logical thinking. 

Emotionally, I felt unworthy and scared, but logically, I had the credentials and experience to make a difference. 

Understanding this helped me shift my perspective. I listed all the logical reasons I had to feel confident about speaking to the young men at the detention center.

When facing similar situations, take time to list your achievements and qualifications. This can help manage the emotional stress from Imposter Syndrome. 

Remember your hard work and the challenges you’ve overcome. This can show you that feelings of inadequacy aren’t real.

Visualizing Success

Once I thought logically, I took it a step further by visualizing my success. I imagined myself speaking at the juvenile detention center, envisioning the positive impact I could have on the young men’s lives. 

Each morning, I would spend the first few minutes of my day picturing myself on that stage, sharing my story, and connecting with them.

Visualization is a powerful tool. It prepares your mind for success and boosts your confidence. Seeing yourself succeed makes it easier to believe in your abilities. 

You can use visualization for anything in life, like job interviews, presentations, or performances. Imagine your success and let that motivate you.

Action Over Fear

The third step to beating Imposter Syndrome is to acknowledge your fear, but still take action. I was scared to speak at the juvenile detention center, but I went for it. 

I called the person who invited me and confirmed that I would participate, even though I felt anxious.

On the day of the event, speaking to those young men was one of the best experiences of my life.

Taking action helped me overcome my fears and doubts. I found that acting despite my fears showed me what I could really do. 

This idea is true for everyone—whether it’s a new job, a promotion, or another challenge. Take action, and you’ll find your true potential.

Self-Worth and Greatness

Imposter Syndrome tricks you into thinking you aren’t good enough. But you can achieve your dreams by recognizing your worth. 

Everyone has unique life experiences, knowledge, and skills that can make them great, so embrace your calling and remember you are worthy.

Conclusion

To overcome Imposter Syndrome, try to think logically instead of emotionally. Imagine your success and take action even if you feel scared.

By following these steps, you can boost your confidence and achieve your dreams because You Are WORTHY TO BE GREAT!