infp here, was in limerence for over 20 years

I spent 10 years obsessing over someone I barely knew. My brain kept her alive, replaying conversations that never actually happened. I thought it was love. It wasn't. I was addicted to my depiction of her in my mind.You aren't in love with them eith...

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Apr 30, 2026
this explains INTJs a little better

If you’re an INTJ, your mind is doing a lot but from the outside people don't know what's happening.In this video, I read a short section from Decode Your Personality by Dr. Dario Nardi and draw along as I break down how INTJs process the world throu...

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Apr 29, 2026
This explains infps a little better

If you want to go deeper and work with these ideas in a practical way, you can join EVOLVE and get access to all my courses, workshops, and community: https://evolve.geekpsychology.comMost INFPs live rich inner lives but struggle to explain why they...

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Apr 27, 2026
why infp finds it so hard to care about the future

infp: why does it feel like you're disconnected from the person you're going to be in five years?It’s a concept called Future Self Continuity. For most of us, our future self feels like a complete stranger. And because they feel like "someone else,"...

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Apr 25, 2026
it really is that damn fi si loop (INFP)

️ Grab the 5-day INFP tutorial and join 5,000+ people getting rare weekly insights → http://geekpsychology.com/infp-5day▶️ Ready to go deeper? Check out the Evolve Community at http://evolve.geekpsychology.comIf you're an INFP, you know the feeling:...

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Apr 24, 2026
the sunken cost fallacy is actually painful af for INFPs

If you’re an INFP, you know the feeling of putting all of your heart, your values, and your time into a project, a job, or a relationship. Then, when it’s clearly not working, the thought of quitting feels like betrayal.It feels like we're failing a...

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Apr 23, 2026
The Real Reason INFPs Struggle With Consistency

️ Grab the 5-day INFP tutorial and join 5,000+ people getting rare weekly insights → http://geekpsychology.com/infp-5day▶️ Ready to go deeper? Check out the Evolve Community at http://evolve.geekpsychology.comYour consistency problem isn't a flaw; it...

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Apr 22, 2026
i found a new term for infps (it's called an otrovert)

️ Grab the 5-day INFP tutorial and join 5,000+ people getting rare weekly insights → http://geekpsychology.com/infp-5day▶️ Ready to go deeper? Check out the Evolve Community at http://evolve.geekpsychology.comi found a new term for infps (it’s called...

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Apr 20, 2026
Why INFP Friendships Feel Like So Much Pressure

If you're an INFP, you crave deep, meaningful connection, but the moment you need to reach out, you freeze up. You wait. You procrastinate. Now, that simple message has turned into a massive, overwhelming task.You are not broken, and you are not a ba...

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Apr 20, 2026
Why INFPs get stuck in the past

If you’re an INFP, I know you’ve been stuck replaying the bad decisions, the failures, and the times you felt like the villain in your own story. Your memory (Si) is constantly feeding your feelings (Fi) old data about what went wrong, and it locks y...

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Apr 18, 2026