Stop wearing 'normal.' Start wearing your power.
Mar 20, 2025 4:07 am
Hi ,
"Dress appropriately." "Look professional." "Fit in with the culture."
This well-intentioned advice is destroying your career potential.
The Mediocrity Trap
After three decades helping professional women transform their presence, I've identified a phenomenon I call "The Appropriate Image Trap" - and it's costing ambitious women millions in lost opportunity.
Here's the controversial truth:
Looking "appropriate" makes you forgettable.
When you blend in with everyone else in your industry or organization, you create what neuroscientists call "attention blindness." Decision-makers literally cannot distinguish your contributions from others.
The Paradox of Professional Image
The very guidelines meant to help you succeed are designed to make you:
• Forgettable (when you need to be memorable)
• Generic (when you need to be distinctive)
• Expected (when you need to be exceptional)
This doesn't mean dressing unprofessionally or inappropriately. It means understanding the strategic power of intentional differentiation.
The Strategic Authenticity Framework
I've developed a methodology that helps professional women identify their authentic power elements and integrate them strategically into their professional appearance.
The results speak for themselves:
REAL STORIES, REAL TRANSFORMATIONS
• "This program changed how I see myself. At work, I feel more confident and people notice. I've been given better projects and my responsibilities have increased. The best part? It all feels natural." – Oluwafunke I.
• "The transformation is clear. Whether I'm in meetings or hanging out with friends, people pay more attention to me. My confidence shines through and it feels great." – Oluwafunke I.
• "Work is different now. Speaking up in meetings is easy and my ideas are heard. Now, everyone recognizes my value." – Geraldine O.
• "Learning about image confidence changed a lot of things for me. Small changes, like a new hairstyle, made people take me more seriously." – Linah K.
Ready to discover your unique power elements? Book your Right Fit Call today to explore how my Strategic Authenticity Framework can transform your professional presence and opportunities.
Your difference is your advantage. It's time to wear it strategically.
To your authentic power,
Funke Roberts
@thefunkeroberts
P.S. The most successful professionals aren't trying to fit in - they're strategically standing out in ways that align with their expertise and value. Book your Right Fit Call now and stop leaving your career advancement to chance.