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There are so many triggers for trust issues hindering your healing after betrayal.
I get it. When you need peace, you're looking for the transparency, commitment, consistency and effort for you to trust him again.
But that's also why many Depressed Cheated Women end up stuck in their toxic relationships even if they already hate it.
Coz in reality, you need to trust yourself first that you can make it so you can FOCUS on moving forward that will give you the long-term freedom from pain.
Here's what I did:
Got to see my abilities, my skills, my inner gift. Kaya mas maging grateful ako kung ano ang natitirang meron ako na kelan man ay di maaagaw sa akin coz it's deeply rooted within me.
I just simply unleashed it. Kaya mas di ko na iniisip kung ano ang kulang sa akin na hinanap nya sa iba.
Kasi mas naging firm ang beliefs ko at mas naging confident ako na I was and I am enough. :)
Then, I started honing my gifts.
I learned more by reading new books, enrolling to courses and I made the results of my mentors as my north star.
I also narrowed down the biggest reasons WHY I needed to move forward, para kanino ba... ano ang purpose and how it aligned to my values and principles.
I relived the pain of my past and I further discovered that the pain and struggles of the Depressed Cheated Women I served were even more than mine (reason why mas lalo pa talaga akong naging grateful).
Kaya I also realized na importante na may nakakausap at nakaka salamuha ka na same sa pinagdadaanan mo.
Someone you can TRUST.
Someone who had been where you are.
People who can relate to your struggle and can lift you up through their stories and testimonies that can add fire to your drive to keep growing and learning.
My secret sauce?
It's really the MORE I HELP, the MORE I GROW. :)
It's really not so secret ano? haha
But when you finally start trusting yourself and what you can offer rather than what you can get from him or from people around you, then you can give more, help more and... grow and heal more.
Di ka na mamamalimos ng pagmamahal and attention mula sa mga taong di ka naman nirerespeto at minamahal.
Honestly, when I founded the Godly Builders Fam, mas lalo akong nagkaroon ng purpose sa buhay ko.
I further trusted that God's purpose for me stood the test of time. :)
That's how I simply started.
And this is how I am consistently working for my healing and growth.
By the way, my best-selling program, The HAC Coaching Program, is offered at a 70% discount.
And we all hate missing a bargain.
So, you only have until tonight to grab The HAC Coaching Program at its biggest discount ever.
Frankly, NEVER pa ako nagbigay ng 70% discount on this product before.
But since we’ve been receiving a lot of messages asking, "How can I start healing?"
Getting the HAC Coaching Program and even just taking the course inside it is the most logical step you can take.
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The clock is ticking.
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To your peace and joy,
FJ "Ikaw na lang ang Kulang" Lapera
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