FJ by FJ Lapera

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Bakit kasi may mga babaeng pumapatol sa may asawa?

Natanong mo na rin ba to ?





Lagi ko kasi to natatanggap na question.


And gustong gusto ko talaga syang sagutin LIVE according to my knowledge of their behavior, their past and according to my students' experiences.


Kaso I noticed one thing.


Sagutin ko man to, baka di mo rin gusto marinig ang sasabihin ko.


Kasi I know from a fact, being on your shoes na sarili mong emotion ang mas concern mo sa ngayon.


Kasi back then ganon din ako.


Correct me if I'm wrong pero...


Yung feeling na, sometimes feeling mo he protects the other woman's feelings pa more than yours.


Lalo na if nakipagbakbakan ka na sa kabit or...


...if you try to open up about the OW sa mahal mo at mag tanong2x about her and sa nangyari at ...


...kung minahal ba nya, mahal pa ba nya, or... ma mimiss pa ba nya.


Kasi you might still have this comparison in your mind.


Situation will turn into an awkward feeling.


Which will also create more indifference sa other half mo thinking bitter ka pa rin at di nakaka move on.


Kaya naman, you're keeping quiet na lang.


And alam mo...


Gustong gusto kong sagutin ang tanong mo.


But I guess, mas magiging maganda, if galing mismo sa isang naging KABIT ang sagot.


Here comes the woman I met from church.


One day, she broke the news while speaking in front during the sermon about her hidden "Dirty Secret".


I knew there's something missing sa kanya.


Seeing her at first, she's having this lower self-esteem.


And I was able to connect the dots sa moment na yun.


Naging kabit pala sya.


And alam mo ano ang twist?


She's now serving sa church - SINGLE AND READY TO MINGLE despite her senior years.


As I study her story, I saw a common denominator among those naging KABIT na mga students ko.


So I asked her if she's interested to SHARE HER STORY with us.


And maybe, be an inspiration sa lahat ng mga KABIT to correct their path as early as possible and discover God's purpose for them instead.


Na gawin kung ano ang tama.


And alam mo ba ...


...nakangiti pa nyang sinabi sa akin na medyo nahihiya pa raw syang e reveal sa lahat.


Pero, she's very willing!


And I'm sharing this to you to inspire you how God changed this one woman's story for a purpose.


And if you want to know more of her story...


And if you want her to be an inspiration sa mga naging kabit to correct their ways...


Let me know so I can invite her to do the interview with me LIVE.


Reply "I WANT" to this email.


If I get at least 30 replies, I'll ask her for this interview.




To giving you some light,

FJ Lapera


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