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I saw this depressing news the other day about Moira and Jason.
And I bet you're already familiar of this hottest issue right now.
Yung kapatid ko nga umiyak talaga kasi inspiration nya at ng boyfriend nya si Moira. Relate kasi sya dahil bestfriends muna sila and they're both committed kay Lord. (Gumuho saglit marital dreams nya)
Going back to the issue, it already went viral on social media and they have confirmed it.
Jason had been unfaithful.
Some expressed pain like my sister, yung iba naghanap na ng wedding photos, some bash others' opinions while some are eager to hear when will Jason confirm about his "Paru2x G" affair.
Kidding aside... just like in our very own relationship battles, I know they took so much courage to go out and speak about their break up.
So who are we to judge them?
Whatever they're in, isa lang ang masasabi ko.
Both of them need healing.
And as per Moira's case, she needs deeper healing.
It reminds me how she was raised.
I remember she had childhood issues growing up and even brought it up inside her marriage.
Hindi pa rin sya buo kasi if I'm not mistaken, she's undergoing therapy or treatment while inside marriage.
The problem about this is nagpakasal sya para may ku kumpleto sa kanya na hindi rin kumpleto.
And because I feel like they're both incomplete, they had troubles filling each other's cup resulting to broken vows.
Truth is, importante na bago magpakasal, punong puno ka na.
And if you're a long-time subscriber of mine, I know you knew hindi rin ako kasal.
And because I knew the value and the sanctity of marriage and I acknowledge the purity that I finally need to make a stand with the LORD...
And because I know the high value that I possess as God's child...
I risked the boundaries that I needed to do.
My students knew about it. I'm so transparent naman kasi talaga sa kanila. :)
And I felt like it's even amazing how I found my journal way back 2013 with me being convicted by God about involving in pre-marital sex with my father's son.
Well, I knew in my heart na buong buo na ako ngayon after following God's challenging instruction to me. It's never easy.
Yet I knew in my heart na ang partner ko ay hindi pa buo.
And as much as I wanted to help him out, only him can fix himself.
Although I feel like he's no longer cheating, marami pa syang hidden issues.
One thing I noticed with Moira is the lack of self-confidence.
Each time I see her on screen, I can feel it.
And sa pagputok ng balita, I finally confirmed why.
Marriage is beautiful.
But it's too difficult to get out of a bad marriage.
Sa case nila, if only they choose to forgive and heal from their childhood issues, great progress and wonderful changes would follow.
Lalo na best friends pa sila.
My point is... if Cheating is a Choice...
Healing After Cheating is also a choice.
Ikaw ang pipili whether tatanggapin mo pa sya ulit sa buhay mo or hindi na.
Kaya dapat alam mo kung kelan ba dapat pwede na.
And kapag kasal ka, dapat endless ang pagpili mo kasi nangako ka kay Lord.
Pero ang pinaka importanteng pagpili ay personal healing first.
Kasi kahit super buo na ang nag cheat... kung puno pa rin ng brokenness ang betrayed, nothing will happen. And vise versa.
That's why if may inch of bitterness ka pa rin ngayon, I hope you understand the importance of ultimate personal healing.
And this is the reason why I upgraded our HAC Program para mas focus ng program na to ang personal healing muna.
And importante rin ang support system for your holistic growth.
I know you've been waiting for the link and the further details of the HAC Program version 2.0.
The last day to avail of this last chance of the lifetime offer ng GB Fam membership is until June 3 (11PM) only.
Check out this link for the complete details.
To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
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