Hey ,
At the end of this video, I'm going to share to you the "3 Scary Mentalities" I eliminated to brainwash myself reason why I healed faster, I forgave even if he didn't ask SORRY...
And why I thanked God for his betrayal.
Before that...
Apologies for not sending any email to you.
As you may know, I got sick, specifically, infected by dengue. It was like more than 2 weeks of physical healing for my head to look back without my world spinning.
Moreover, I needed to supercharge my braincells coz the THM I was supposed to re-open last month got cancelled due to Dengue.
While on my bed rotting and feeling like dying... (baka sabihin mo OA lang ako ha... It's my first time to get infected and super low na ng platelet ko na nakasuka na ako ng dugo, was shivering due to feeling of extreme cold and was literally asking the Lord kung kukunin na ba Nya ako kasi alam kong di ko pa na fulfill ang mission ko sa HAC Advocacy He entrusted to me).
So yeah... medyo OA ang feeling ko non at mangiyak ngiyak ako na naalala ko lahat ng kagaguhang ginawa sa akin and how I felt stepped on and betrayed several times not only by him but his family.
Nevertheless...
→I got to have more time with my son while sick and have leveled up my connection and discipline to him.
→ I got to hear God's words more why I needed rest amidst all the chaos of my past and the fire of bouncing back and cheering more women
→ I got to have time go swimming with my family and spend the beautiful moment swimming with my son hanggang nanginig na ako sa pool. lol
→ I'm more at peace and joyful plus grateful seeing how my siblings and other extended family took care of me, thought about me and how they cheered me to heal faster coz I know not all family are supportive so I'm so blessed
→ I got a message from one of my THM students who leveled up herself and thanked me for THM coz it pushed her to learn more and invest in Matthew Hussey event in Florida just a few days ago where she spent Php400k amount of money. She said that because of THM, she finally understood how continued learning could help her flourish and I just couldn't help but be proud of her.
And that's just happened while I was recovering from dengue and bouncing back from this Healing After Cheating Advocacy I accepted as God's challenge for me.
I had a few personal problems as well.
So yeah.
Pretty busy.
Anywaaaaaaaaay...
I just want to say that I'll publish a few more emails and social media posts from now on.
And moving forward, I'm going to publish more about...
1. Forgiving those who Hurt you
2. Skyrocketing Confidence
3. Trust Redemption in Relationships and Marriage
4. Spiritual Development in line with the Bible
5. Healing and Moving forward (of course)
Right now, it's not enough to be a "healed" or just "move on."
You must level up your emotional intelligence and have more knowledge in understanding his past, your past.
Right now, I'm concentrating on three things:
1. Mastering Self-Growth and Confidence with Clarity - because you needed these moving forward.
2. The Psychology of Men and Women in Relationships - because your marriage or relationship won't last if you don't have the knowledge, understanding and "wisdom" to make it happen.
3. Spiritual Growth - because whatever religion you have, once God isn't above your marriage, principles and values... it won't last.
I'm also continuing to learn more and more about counseling couples since even if as you know I'm not yet married and let go of my ex... I'm helping married women who are seeking help in restoring marriages despite all the odds of betrayal.
In fact, I created THM which is not only for deeper clarity but also applicable for couples and both the husband and wife have the steps laid out to heal and grow together after betrayal.
So if you're part of THM, I'm going to announce "retraining sessions" soon as a refresher.
If you're inside the HAC Academy, we're also going back to the 3-in-1 monthly GB Therapy and I've already announced the schedule inside our exclusive FB Group.
And if you want mentoring and 1-1 coaching or like kayo lang talaga na couple kasi ayaw nyo ng group coaching or counselling, I'm releasing something like that soon as well.
Before I end this email, I wanna share this video again where in the end, I shared the 3 Scary mentalities I eradicated on my brain.
I used it especially over the 1st quarter of this year.
It worked pretty well for me.
You need to FOLLOW the process, alright?
Just trust me coz even I myself am just getting back on track again after years of trauma, pain and series of betrayal that I didn't anticipate.
It'll make more sense once you watch the video here.
See you in my next email. :)
To your peace and joy,
FJ "Healed na from Dengue" Lapera
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