A lot of Depressed Cheated Moms think moving on is simply forgiving him and giving another chance after they heard the "SORRY" or at least if they feel na gusto naman makipagbalikan ng husband nila.
But that's not actually true at all .
You have to heal your inner self first, understand the root cause of the problem inside the relationship why it happened to address and solve it, create the plans, the goals, vision and strategy to impose on self-development to be unbreakable while experiencing triggers, repentant heart from both husband and wife whether healing individually or as a couple, and so much more. You do this BEFORE you achieve peace of mind and even before thinking of giving chances.
To illustrate this further, let me tell you this story.
I had forgiven the father of my son immediately before para buo pa rin ang pamilya.
Syempre mahal ko rin sya. Pero dahil hindi pa ako healed emotionally and mentally after all the insecurities and triggers, nagkapa problem ako handling my emotions when I saw his actions not aligned to what I wanted to see.
Then, nakipag break ako ulit.
And gave another chance ulit.
At that time, it felt so much better. Kasi mas na manage ko na ang emotions ko. Pero may problema ulit.
Di aligned ang vision, plans and principles namin before I even gave another chance. Moreover, my own values were compromised and that was non-negotiable to me even before pa ng 1st chance pero pinalagpas ko.
And dahil pinalagpas ko ulit, I never had the peace of mind. Until sa I followed what God put in my heart last year.
Healing After Cheating is not just about moving on and forgetting what happened. It's even not about pagbabalik alindog program mo. It's so much more.
It's your inner healing so the inner desire of your soul is aligned to what your creator longs for you. Para puno ka at para unbreakable while pursuing your gifts as an asset to the relationship.
If you want to learn the COMPLETE world of healing your inner self, go to this link to learn more.
To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
P.S. I'm also going LIVE now on our socials for another episode of FJ Love Therapy. It's a bit late since I'm having issues with my tools.
Well, see you when I see you. :)
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