You can't learn from someone you're jealous of .
What you need is inspiring association to learn.
You need to be present.
You need to be beside someone you want to learn from.
Let's say when Manny Pacquiao wanted to be successful in boxing, he needed the solid training.
He can't have the winning moves without taking action.
He needs to observe how to punch and he needs to be praised when he does the good one or corrected when he does the opposite.
He needs some inspiration.
If he's jealous of his coach, then, it would be hard to accept correction.
He would just say he's better.
Or worst, punch his coach to death.
This happened in the Bible.
Aaron, Miriam and Moses are siblings.
And Miriam and Aaron are silently jealous of Moses.
That's why when he was at the mountain 40 days, it was easier for them to lead the people serving another God even if they knew the truth about God's justice system.
They were swayed by pride and jealousy.
Many died from that weak leadership.
And even after that, Miriam had been leprous because again of jealousy and pride.
And that's the same with learning anything.
Even inside your marriage after betrayal.
You can't learn why and how betrayal happened if you're jealous with his Other Women.
All you need is a coach to tell remind you of your value in case you forgot it.
And learn from the kabit's ways and even from your husband to outwit them and show what you got.
Hindi yung iiyak iyak ka lang at magpapaka lunod sa triggers na pa ulit2x kumakatok sa ulo mo.
You need an inspiration from anyone who have conquered the jealousy, bitterness and emotional breakdown you're experiencing.
And you need to associate with that person.
Be beside that mentor.
Be coachable, humble and have listening ears.
That's what Joshua did.
He was Moses' mentee.
And he was the one who led Israel, God's people to the promise land.
Meaning, you can only receive the promise of blessings if may coachable attitude ka.
And... if you associate and learn humbly from someone you're inspired with.
That's why I encourage you to seek a mentor and learn from someone in all areas of your life.
Bawat area ng buhay mo, dapat may mentor ka.
Someone you look up to.
Kahit nga sa pag aalaga ng bata if first time mom ka, need mo ng mentor, like Nanay mo.
And please respect your mentor.
Kahit ako, may mentor ako within our local church.
As a church leader, I respect and learn from our pastor's life experiences.
She's a strong woman too.
And I love how she left everything to follow God's calling.
So seek a mentor, associate with your mentor, listen and be coachable.
That's why I always highlight na yung mga nauna sa Godly Builders Fam na pansin kong malaki ang improvement and those who thrived are the ones who are active.
Yung mga naging coachable.
And yung mga active sa pag attend ng weekly Godly Builders Therapy.
And that's why I always encourage you to be active and learn.
I am NOT encouraging you ONLY to sow your TREASURES with our GB Fam.
I am encouraging you to sow your TIME and TALENT.
TIME for attendance. For you to receive the revelation in lined to healing your family.
TALENT for cheering others too lalo na ka GB Fam mo.
Kasi as you build other families, God is also building yours.
and lastly...
Remember these 3 T's.
Kasi when you give your treasures, time and talent back for the Lord and for His glory... you'll see miracles beyond your expectations sa buhay mo.
Anyway, it's WEDNESDAY again!!!
Here's our Google Meet Link for our Godly Builders Therapy tonight.
I'm including 2 links na coz I'm expecting sosobra tayo sa 1 hour.
It's for you to note of the links in advance.
LINK #1: https://meet.google.com/jsh-jepo-iwv
LINK #2: https://meet.google.com/wxs-msxu-okh
See you when I see you at 9pm tonight . :)
To your peace and joy,
FJ "Cheering you on" Lapera
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