Coaching hundreds of Depressed Cheated Women, I can confidently say na marami ang di pa rin confident sa sarili at mga naging decisions nila after experiencing betrayal.
Sadly, these are beautiful, compassionate and hard-working women especially the moms.
Working hard for their children and family.
And they all want the best for their kids.
Happy and complete home.
But, minsan ba natanong mo..."Bakit nga ba ang hirap maging masaya?"
Now, ung word na "masaya" can mean different things to different people.
Pero when I say "masaya," meaning, ung hindi mo na iniisip ang past kasi naka move on ka na and alam mo sa sarili mo na tama sa mata ng tao at mata ni Lord ang ginawa mo at mga naging decisions mo.
Walang ka ng worries kung tama ba ang mga naging decision mo para sa pamilya mo.
So, pano nga ba maging masaya?
Well, simple lang.
In life, you need to learn two (2) things:
1) How to be confident.
2) How to keep the confidence.
Here's the thing: These two require different skills and mindsets.
Maaring magaling ka sa "pagiging confident ngayon."
But you're terrible naman sa "consistency sa pagiging confident mo"
In the end, nagkaka anxiety ka pa rin and questioning your worth kung bakit nangyari sayo ang betrayal at sunod2x na feeling mo kamalasan sa buhay mo.
Ouch?
If you're living in the Philippines, may anak ka, and you're still imagining a miracle from above na tatanggalin na lang Nya bigla ang worries mo, you need to improve your self-confidence and clarity in your chosen path.
Sure, maaring hindi ka na umiiyak araw2x.
Nakakapag paganda ka na ng sarili, or having more time with your kids. Boracay pa kayo pag summer...
But you're probably not loving yourself enough and still not accepting the fact that betrayal happened lalo na if feeling mo hindi mo deserve.
I'm warning you.
Maraming na baliw sa kakaisip kung worth ba sila ng pagmamahal na naipapasa nila sa mga anak nila kaya napaka low ang self-esteem ng mga anak nila which sometimes lead to different kinds of sickness din.
So, if you don't step up your confidence and clarity sa healing journey mo, it's like a ticking bomb.
You'll be shocked one day kung bakit bigla2x ka na lang sumabog na akala mo strong enough ka na sa pag usad mo.
If you want more clarity and confidence on your healing journey and how to unbreakable sa chosen path mo...
Then, stay tuned this March for my women's month gift of love for you as your cheerleader to Healing After Cheating.
I'll be shooting daily video and share my love to you on our socials.
But for me to help you best...
I need you to reply to this email and tell me...
What is your single biggest question when it comes to leveling up your confidence and having clarity in your Healing After Cheating journey?
To your freedom,
FJ Lapera
P.S. My friend, wag mo ng hintayin na you're desperate enough to remove all your worries saka ka mag take action sa healing journey mo.
Answer my question now para mas ma help kita clearing all your thoughts this 2024 regarding your marriage or relationship.
Libre lang naman ang tanong ko at libre rin ang sagot mo.
But I tell you...
...my time and answers for you are valuable enough to help you level up.
Now I'll be waiting for your single biggest question.
And I hope to cheer you more this March.
God bless you! :)
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